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Get too wet easily
okay so this isnt really a sex question but when I had a bf, I got REALLY wet just making out! I want it to stop. I know some people say its a good thing andgys like it but I dont. I have tried pantyliner's and It doesnt work to provent it. This is really embarrassing but I get wet through my pants and I want it to stop. Please help if there is anyway! Thanks in advance. Oh and I am only 16 and have only made out and it was that bad just doing that. thanks again
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A lot of people get "wet" for different reasons. I'm not sure that there's anyway to stop it, honestly. It isn't really a bad thing. (:
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Getting wet is a natural reaction to becoming sexually aroused. The only way to stop it is to not become sexually aroused. To not make out with your boyfriend.
When you become wet it is your body preparing your for intercourse. Nothing says you have to have intercourse though by becoming sexually aroused your body is going to prepare itself. This is an automatic response to an overt act. There is nothing you can do to stop it. You can try to think of something else when becoming aroused.
Try thinking about homework assignments, family vacations or something that really grosses you out. I can't guarantee you can do this while making-out or if it will even work, though you can try.
You can also speak to your GYN about this. There is nothing to be embarrassed about and you are old enough by law to speak with the doctor in confidence without mom being in the exam room. This is a right under a law known as HIPPA. Since you are older than 14 you can seek help from any doctor for any condition regarding your reproductive system in confidence without parental intervention.
There is nothing you can talk to your doctor about that he or she has not heard or treated before. Your doctor is their to help you and this law was enacted to allow you to speak frankly with your doctor so you can be treated properly. Only you and your doctor will know what you were seen for and treated for. Anyone else who wants know needs written permission from you, this includes your parents, before the doctor can tell them anything about your visits.
So see your GYN; if there is anything they can do about this condition I am sure they will offer it to you.
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I totally know how it feels, and also I get how
embarrasing it actually is!
Unfortunatly, because it's natural there's not much you can do about it.
Perhaps drinking less water could help.
Also, be sure to wear pantyliners when you'll be sitting down on hard chairs for a while (eg: exams) so the wet doesn't show through.
Yeh it can be hard, but there are alot more ladies out there than you think that alsohave the same problem, and from what I understand it's much worse to be the other way round.
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Are you getting wet only when you're getting sexually aroused, or do you have a persistent vaginal discharge other times has to be the first question? If it's normal secretions that come about via sexual arousal then that's just the way you're built I reckon. Bit of a delicate question, but if you were very anxious about making out, are you sure it wasn't a bit of 'stress-peeing'? Probably not, but worth a thought. Also, if you fantasise and get yourself highly aroused through masturbating, do you get very wet then? It could be that you just DO get very wet when aroused. At your age, when you're just starting to have a guy around when you're wetting, and in a position where he'll know about it, it can be a rather 'embarassing' at first. As you've acknowledged, some guys like it
and I can't say I've ever known a bloke have a problem with a girl wetting. He'd have to be pretty mixed-up mentally if he did, I mean it's a natural response. If it is part of your make-up, you can't stop it any way I know of. So your best bet is to come to terms with it and enjoy it as much as possible. A chat with the doctor might be a good idea if you've got any niggling worries, and definitely if you've got any unusually heavy discharges down there when you're not sexually excited. All the best.
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What you are going through sounds pretty extreme.
I would suggest you talk to your mom about it and set up an appointment with a doctor. You shouldn't have to deal with the problem on your own.
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