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Could i be gay? (f)
Ok so i have only ever been out with guys. But there has always been something missing, apart from this one guy.
And i have become a lot more attracted to women lately - Not like "yeah i want to bang them" more of - "they're beautiful". Its hard to explain - and its hard to admit to myself i could be gay.
But i find myself looking at women more than men. And because of a certain incident - i would rather be with a woman, because i find guys can be too ... you know...
So yeah - i need help. I think i might be but can't admit it to myself.
I have kissed a girl - none of us shyed away.
Just need an outsiders point of view.
Oh and btw - yeah i have seriously fallen for this girl. So bad.
I have gfell for women before also... But also fell for guys - but never fell for a guy like i have fallen for these women
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I'm guessing that you are a young teenager some where between 13 and 16 years of age. If I'm correct while it is possible you could be gay; I don't think you are. In fact what I think is happening is what happens to all teenagers during their early teens. They become somewhat sexually confused and this is normal.
It is during this time in your life that you explore your sexuality. It is normal to look at and experience sex within your own sex. It is safer for both males and females to experience sex within their own sex as they learn about themselves. This is also a period of heavy masturbation an fantasizing. This is how we learn about our own sexuality.
While you become a lesbian? Doubtful as this is not something you become but something you are born as. You could become bi-sexual, which is someone who enjoys having sex with members of both sexes.
For now though I believe you are a normal teenager who is exploring her sexuality. Enjoy yourself but don't label yourself. It is far to early to label your sexual being.
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It would appear you are strongly attracted to males sexually and females too. That's fine. You aren't gay but rather bi-sexual based on what you have indicated to us.
You like both sexes equally and could happily partner with either. There's nothing wrong with you nor anything to be ashamed to admit. It may be overwhelming at first but this question/answer thing could really help in becoming accustomed and okay with what sexual orientation you are. There's lots of support here. I'm around if you need anything. Hit my inbox.
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