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how to stop myself from killing myself
I lost the only thing that matters to me my girlfriend and feel like i want end my life cause i can not live without her my heads confused i feel horrible inside and i can't help but want end it to make things better for everyone
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I would say that this is the best time of your life when you can actually feel the pain, its time to pick up your tools of trade and bring out the best in you.If you go back in history all the greatest artists have created their master-pieces out of their pain, and their hatred for the world,Channelize your energy and divert it towards something that is your passion, put your entire rage and fury into it.(P.S: Do something that is productive and which doesn't harm yourself or others). only then will you be able to move on.
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I hear you and I believe I can say that most if not all of us feel your pain for at some point in our lives we have been where you are now.
Yes it hurts, it is suppose to hurt be it your fault or hers for the break up. This hurt will pass in time. You two may even get back together depending on why and who is responsible for the break up.
You are entitled to feel bad and to hurt for a day or week. Then you need to pick yourself up and get right back in he pool. As my mother would have told you; "There are plenty of fish in the sea." "What you need to do is bait the hook and go fishing again." The right girl is out there for you and you will find each other.
My mother would have also told you everything happens for a reason. I cannot tell you why what happened between you and your girlfriend happened but for whatever the reason was it was suppose to. Now you need to get back out there and find the girl you are meant to be with.
So have yourself a pity party for a day or two. Your entitled to one. Then pick yourself up and go fishing.
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Honestly , the solution to this problem is you alone . Believe me when i tell you that if you don't step up and fight for you , no one else will . You were delivered to this world for a purpose . I'm very sure that you love your girlfriend and so on but you need to prioritise yourself first . Whatever that's taking place right now has a reason , a silver lining behind it so you can't fall and break down just yet . Look , you're a man , and depend on yourself to have happiness because this is your life . There's more to it but for now , concentrate on the present . If you've lost your girl , try your best to move on and stay strong . Let go of the past , let go . Heartache is not an uncommon matter , i know . As a rose cannot live without the rain , so can't a heart love without the risk of pain and that's why you need to eliminate suicidal thoughts and make a change for yourself . Change on how you perceive yourself , your family , fates and more and it's never too late . The thing is , if you don't stand up now , you'll affect your future too , so make a change . It has the power to heal , to uplift , to stimulate , surprise , open new doors , bring fresh experience and create excitement in life . It's worth the risk right ? Also , don't listen to your inner voices of sadness and pessimism . Either you get motivated , or be miserable and you've the choice . Please , think about yourself too . You deserve a right to live happily , don't let people affect who you are . Motivate yourself now , and again , let go of the history . Are you willing to be in this state for another few weeks ? I doubt so . Stand up , rinse away the tears and plan on how to make a better tomorrow . Remember , it takes only you to be happy and do appreciate life . Make experiences as a platform for you to be more concrete and stronger . You can do it ! Plan , plan , plan and work the plan the best way you can and believe that you can live and be happy too . It's true :)
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Oh please don't do that!!! I know it is really hard right now for you, but it WILL get better. Break-ups are extremely tough, especially when you lose someone you care about, but that is no reason to lose your life over. There is a certain someone out there for everyone. If it's this girl, then it will work out in the future. If it's not this girl, you WILL find someone else that is even more perfect for you. If you take your life because of this, you will be hurting your family, friends, and this ex-girlfriend. It's not worth it. Things after a break up do get better, maybe try talking to her in a calm & collected way, to see why the break-up occurred. If she doesn't want to talk, distract yourself by doing things you enjoy, hang out with friends, play sports/videogames/read; whatever you do for fun. Surround yourself with people who make you happy besides the girl. It will help! It will get better and if it's meant to be it will, if not, you'll find another girl who is fits you better. It may not be right away, but you will find that special someone down the road, just be patient. I'm 22 and still haven't found that someone, but I know he's out there somewhere! Don't give up hope.
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