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how do you get over a guy really fast
I like this guy and i liked him for a year and i am trying to forget about him but it is impossible. The most hurtful thing is that he doesn't even notice me and i always get mad and i know that i want to forget about him. I madly in love and i am only 14 so what should i do?
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Just cheerup...
Even i've the same prob. . . But m trying to forget him..
Orelse, just think that you're the best... Saw a bit of attitude.. It might attract him towards you....
But be in your limit that's it :)
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Focus on other things. Find something to distract yourself. Your only 14, on the average, people don't TRULY fall in love until their at LEAST 16. By 17 there will be a 75% chance you've already met the person you're going to marry. Yea, that's real... I'm 19, I thought I was "madly in love" at 16. And since then I' dated plenty of losers. All in all, "there's plenty other fish in the sea." You're still young, there'll be plenty more boys where he came from. Trouble is finding the right one. Good luck...
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I Honestly Feel Like You Should Try And Talk To Him Because If You Don't You Might Try Regret Trying To Get Over Him, Be Bold If You Aren't Already. If Not What I Believe Is That If You Don't Know Him Like If Your Not That Close With Him You Shouldn't Feel Like It Would Be Difficult For You To Get Over Or Forget Him. You Most Likeley Just Loved Him From A Far. I'm Pretty Sure Your A Beautiful Young Lady And If He Didn't Notice You At All Then It's His Loss And He Doesn't Deserve Your Attention Or Time.
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Oh sweetie, this must be very hard. I'm 14 myself, (15 in 2 months) and I understand that it is very hard to get over someone that doesn't even notice you.
What I've found, to get over ANY situation, is surround yourself with people (new or old friends) try to distract yourself as much as possible. Get into a new sport, take a jog every day (which definitely helps, because it gets your endorphin's going, which makes you happy! Seriously, after I'm done working out, I feel awesome, and really good about myself!)Another thing is to get a job, I know it's hard to because we're so young, but some places that the owner is actually in, they will sometimes hire at 14/15. Mostly like yogurt shops, and whatnot.
What I'm trying to say is just do new things. Obviously this person was very important to you, but you have to realize that things like this happen all the time. There will ALWAYS be more boys, you've got a long life ahead of you!
I understand that you think you are 'madly in love' with him, but take your age into consideration sweetheart, love is a very big thing, and unless you're emotionally stable, mature, and secure, love isn't something you want to be getting into.
Not saying because of your age you shouldn't be having realtionships, because I think relationships are good to build structure for future relationships, help development and growth as well.
I know it's hard, but we have to realize the reality of it, we are so young, and there are so many opportunities coming in the next 20-30 years.
When you look back on this situation when you're in your 20's, 30's 40's (if you even remember it at all) you're going to think how silly it was to be so upset over this guy you probably won't even know in the next 10 years!
Just hold on, and be strong. I know it's very difficult right now, but you are going to be fine.
And you'll definitely find someone worth your time.
Hope all goes well sweetheart. xx
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