Member Since: December 15, 2012
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Last Update: December 15, 2012
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I'm 15 and a girl and the guy I like is a jerk but I like him anyway. We pretend to dislike each other in front of our friends because they cruelly joke about us together. He keeps giving me mixed signals, like winking at me but then hating me?! (link)
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The worst thing you can do is give him the attention he doesn't deserve. He's using you as his toy, to see how far he can push you. This can be bad, because he can try to embarras you in front of your friends. Avoid him. Jerks don't deserve for you to like them. Any guy friends closer to you, are the ones you should be looking it. They're your friends for a reason. Cause they care about you... think about that. Hope this helps...
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well, it used to be pretty OK with me and my mum. but lately, maybe in the past month we've been fighting like every 2 or so afternoons. and it gets really bad, like she calls me a b****, then i call her a b**** then she calls me nasty then so on...
i must seem horrible to her when were in the fight, but actually after, i think to myself that im wrong and that i am everything what my mum told me i am
its just in the moment, that i get so angry. its my biggest weakness being told what to do, and being in a big family im told what to do very often and then the fighting starts over and over and over. i know its a horrible weakness to have, and most of the time i try hard to stop it, but really i cant deal with someone constantly bombarding me with orders. to me its like not having my own space, which is probably weird to everyone else but its how i feel.
sometimes i try and say sorry and fix it all up, but usually people really dont want to talk about it after the arguing is done and they just brush me off. but i hate leaving things unfixed.
its the worst feeling promising yourself it wont happen again and then it happens again
so i just would like some advice, because really its getting me down a lot lately and wish it so much to stop
by the way, if it helps im 14 and 8 months
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Telling you what to do is just part of her being a parent. I know it may seem over-whelming but I had a strict mom too. Im 19 now! If you don't want her to get after you so much, do what you're supposed to before she asks you to. BUT!!! make sure you tell her what you've done. If you're chores are the dishes, wash before she says anything. Go up to her, "mom, I'm done with the dishes, is it cool if I relax for a while?" She can't say no, unless you've got more chores. But key is to do things BEFORE you're told, keeps the parents happy and nobody's telling you what to do or how to do it. Hope this helps...
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Like,I was dating a guy for like 6months, and he just brokeup. And like, I'm not able to get over him... He likes a close friend of mine, but she's into someother one. And like, also we don't talk anymore.. I need an advise. Like what to do. (link)
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woah woah woah, you're going about this the wrong way. First of all, 1."ex's are ex's for a reason." Obviously it's not going to work, you can't change that. But there's plenty more where he came from. 2. I don't know if you've heard the expression "bros before hos". You should NEVER let a guy, MUCH LESS AN EX, get between you and a good friend. UNLESS SHE allows it, then thats her problem. Move on. If he can't appreciate who and what you are, then he doesn't deserve you.
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I like this guy and i liked him for a year and i am trying to forget about him but it is impossible. The most hurtful thing is that he doesn't even notice me and i always get mad and i know that i want to forget about him. I madly in love and i am only 14 so what should i do? (link)
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Focus on other things. Find something to distract yourself. Your only 14, on the average, people don't TRULY fall in love until their at LEAST 16. By 17 there will be a 75% chance you've already met the person you're going to marry. Yea, that's real... I'm 19, I thought I was "madly in love" at 16. And since then I' dated plenty of losers. All in all, "there's plenty other fish in the sea." You're still young, there'll be plenty more boys where he came from. Trouble is finding the right one. Good luck...
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