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my boyfriend ended our relationship of three years because..
Because I have to kiss someone in a three minute scene.
ADVICE FROM PEOPLE OVER THE AGE OF 19
BEEN IN LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS
VERY MUCH APPRECIATED
We have been together 3 years & had a great relationship
He ended it 9 months ago prior to this break up for the same reason but agreed to dicuss it with me fairly if it comes about, to which it has now
- he says I have betrayed him and he never wants to be with me again
- he is upset because i was his first for everything and the exclusivity is gone and he cant handle that
- please note i hadnt kissed anyone behind his back. He broke up with me, then I prepared my scene with my acting partner
- He is making out like I have cheated and he says kissing on stage is exactly the same as kissing when your out drunk
- Several times I asked him if I sacrificed something for you could you do it for me.. he replied no. After we broke up I later found out from him he said that because he thought I wouldn't do it for him. - miscommunication and understanding there
- he says his friends sympathize his feelings
My question to you all is
Do you think it was the right decision to end the relationship? He said over the few months he tried to be accepting ... when I'm not even acting then! I said to him the week I'm actually doing the scene would be the time to be an adult, a time for us to support eachother.. I'm angry at him because he didn't do that
He claims I had a choice in the matter.
If I chose not to kiss my acting partner, I would be kicked out of my course. Then i wouldn't be happy and we would probs end up in this situation anyway.
I said if I REALLY had a choice, why would I choose to hurt you like that?
One minute he is angry at me, the next he asks me if I was happy.
Do you think he is angry at himself?
We are on good terms too, and are being friendly.
But then he says stuff like "get your stuff out asap". So I haven't bothered to. We planned to see a show which I have tickets for at the end of the month. At first he said he didn't want to see me, now he is saying that he will go. So one minute he is horrible, the next he is ok. I dont want to see him until we meet up to give him space to calm down and stop being cruel to me.
Do you think he regrets it?
We are good people who care deeply and will be friends. Do you think maybe he will realise that he shouldn't of ended it?
We are both 19 and have been together since I was 16 and he was 15.
I do sympathies and understand he is hurting and understand his view
What do you think will happen?
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Tough situation on your part here, I think he made a huge mistake and he knows he did... hence why he occasionally acts cruel, he's just too dignified to admit he made the wrong choice.
How many actresses have to kiss men/women in scenes? they are married and have boyfriends and families, it was highly rude and ignorant of him to break it off for that reason, I feel like another reason is behind it, he was looking for a reason and I guess chose this one, I suggest maybe trying to seriously ask him what the big deal is and I hope he comes to his senses!
Hope this helped -TehTisha x
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