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Why did this guy defend me?
Today this guy who everyone think I go out with, but I really can't stand(he likes me though), decided he was going to start poking me. I told him to not touch me, but he didn't stop. So, I told him to get the **** away from me. He continued to touch me and then tried to give me a hug. I pushed him away. He tried to poke me again, and this junior came up and told him to leave me the **** alone. This guy pushed him(the friend pushed the junior) and they almost fought. I needed to get home, so I left.
Why did this guy defend me? I barely know him. I only have my last period class with him and we don't even talk that much. I'm 15 and he's 16 or 17. He's always been nice, though. I don't know what to think, considering I've never been in a situation like this. Most people wouldn't even think to defend me.
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Dear Why did this guy defend me?,
Sounds to me like this boy was stopping a bully from picking on a girl.
You should thank him graciously and hang out with him more often.
He has good manners and probably parents that really care about him. It shows in his actions.
This could be the start of a beautiful friendship.
Good Luck!
Lots of Love to you!
DoktorTammy
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It was common decency to do so chalk it out to that. He would have defended anyone in your situation if the person was assaulting you and wouldn't F-off when told to quit.
This doesn't mean he wants to be friends or more with you but perhaps he could. You should approach him to say thanks and ask if he would like to hang out sometime and see how he reacts to that or you could invite on a group activity. If he doesn't want to that's your sign he isn't interested.
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He might just be a decent guy who knows when someone says 'no touching' it means no touching.
Sometimes it's that simple.
You might try asking him. There is no other way to know. We can't know more than you do.
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