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I always thought it'd be a turn on
So I always thought that have your nipples played with, rubbed, kissed, sucked on, etc was suppose to be a huge turn on? Since there's so many nerves and stuff, idk. Well today me and a guy were messgin around and be started to suck on my nipples but it didn't really affect me at all, especially like I thought it would. I was just like oh okay. Why could this be? I thought maybe he just wasn't doing something right or he needed to spice it up a bit idk. Just curious!
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You need to worry less about how you're "supposed" to react to a given stimulus and focus more on how you, as an individual, do. Everyone is different. What may be true for others may not be true for you. You can only be you.
It could be that you either don't think that having your nipples sucked is that erotic, you're not into the guy or maybe the guy wasn't doing it in a way you needed it to be done. And there could be answers beyond the three I posed. When it comes to sex, it's all about you in how you react to it, not others. So relax and enjoy sex on your own terms.
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Nipples aren't an on switch. It's not like flicking them will turn you on instantly!
Everyone's got different things that turn them on. Erogenous zones can be found all over the body: the ears, nipples, feet, neck... it's different for each person. My husband loves it when I kiss his neck, I HATE it when it's done to me.
Even though nipples are a fairly universal erogenous zone, they require different levels of stimulation depending on personal preference. Some people are extremely sensitive and hardly need them touched. Others need to have them pulled, bitten or twisted to really get anything out of it. It's entirely possible that you are affected, just not by what he's doing. Have him try different things and see if you like any of it. If it's not working for you, have him stop, because there's no point in you sitting there bored while he goes to town.
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