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sore "down there"
Well I'm 12 and obviously a virgin well last night in the bath you know that spray thing that some people have and you can wet your hair and stuff with it? Anyway I took that thing and put it down there and put the water on as high as it can go so that the most water comes out and it feels amazing well when I stopped I put my hand "down there"and there was a very little bit of light blood on my hand and then it wasn't bleeding again but its so sore and I can't close my legs or else its really sore and I can't walk properly I can't tell anyone in my family obviously because I would be dead for doing that! Pls help I really don't know what's wrong with me!!
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What you did is really common. Water has abrasive properties to it, so if you use it too long you can cause a little bit of bleeding and soreness. No big deal. It'll heal. Just be more careful next time.
Also, masturbation is 100% normal. Don't feel guilty about it and it isn't dirty, especially id you're in the shower. *lol
Relax and enjoy.
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I know it may be embarrassing to talk to your mom about this or an older sister, relative or trusted female but I really think you should. Trust me, neither they nor your parents will kill you and in fact may be sympathetic about it.
At your age your mom and most parents know that masturbation and curiosity about it for both sexes is pretty universal and probably suspects you do so. She probably knows you've heard about this kind of method from people at school and it won't floor her if you tell the truth that your curiosity got you hurt.
She's a woman and probably had similar or more embarrassing stuff happen as a teen than this relating to sexuality. I would explain that you are so sore you can't walk or sit correctly and need to know exactly what to do about it and let her or a doctor if you prefer look at it quickly as possible.
It's okay they've seen it all and your mom changed you as a baby. They need to see the vulva (outside part) and determine it's bruising and not anything else in terms of possible injury. A doctor can also look internally if mom thinks it's needed and do so privately.
I know you'll be okay but rather that suffer silently in pain let mom know. It may not be easy but it's your health and above all she will help you as would any doctor.
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Have you ever ended up bruised after being in a hot tub, sitting right against the jets?
Chances are that you've done the same to yourself. Having high-pressure jets blasting against a sensitive area like that is going to cause some pretty nasty bruising.
As for the bleeding, it's very possible that you broke your hymen if you were pointing the jet up inside of you.
If the soreness doesn't go down within a few days, or if you notice bleeding again, please tell your parents. Any anger they show is worth it to make sure that you're healthy and safe.
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