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I have this crush


Question Posted Tuesday November 13 2012, 7:50 pm


Ok, so here's the story.

I'm 17, a senior in high school, and I just can't stop thinking about this girl I like.

Over the summer I was lifeguarding with her in a camp upstate, we both lived on the same grounds so we saw eachother every day. For the first week or so that I was there we seriously hit it off, we talked to eachother for what seemed like hours, went on walks to the horse ranch nearby, and so on. Then for a little while she just suddenly stopped talking to me for the next 2 weeks, I confronted her about it and she told me that I had been acting a lot like my roommate, who in her opinion was a major tool. We made up and continued being friends, just we never got as close as we were that first week we met.

Over the course of the summer I found out she kinda had this guy who she liked, and he like her(a lot apparently) but because he had strict parents they couldn't go out, I got some hints over the summer that she might go out with me, and she even told me the fact that this guy can't go out with her wouldn't stop her from going out with other guys.

I can't stop thinking about her, it's getting really frustrating, it's been about 5 months since we met and I guess we are friends(we talk occasionally, I rarely see her though), I really want to be with her, but I seriously don't wanna kill a good friendship and make things awkward.

So my question is, is there anything I can do to make a move at going out with her? Or should I just leave it as it is, and get over it as best I can?

P.S. We don't go to the same school but live in the same area, she's one grade below me(but like 3 months younger)

P.P.S. Sorry I reposted this, last time apparently I did it anonymously.


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Irn-bru-is-amazeballs answered Saturday November 17 2012, 7:18 am:
It sounds like she was avoiding you because she liked you seriously just tell her how you feel.

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micZz answered Saturday November 17 2012, 12:38 am:
You should really tell her don't worry about it getting in your friendship trust me I was friends with this guy and we dated and broke up horribly and we still friends then he asked me out again and I said no and we still good friends. All girls need to hear is that u really do want them trust me
Hope I helped
Michaela x

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dolphina answered Wednesday November 14 2012, 11:04 pm:
TELL HER!!!!!!!!!!!
Tell her. As a girl, that is all you need to do. Tell her.

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