OK so my friend has been hooking up with this guy on a weekly basis since the end of August and he does act distant sometimes (like he usually texts her every few days, used to be every other day if not every one but I think he got comfortable. and she also told me they usually make out when they say goodbye but sometimes he doesn't.) from what she tells me I really get the feeling that he cares about her but she won't listen. So she let me read their convo and I think its pretty good evidence that he cares about her and might like her
so it went like this (she said she was bored one day):
her: ask me a question, I'm bored
him: well I guess I never really asked you what you look for in a guy
her: (says what she looks for) and how about you?
him: (says what he looks for) ... and she needs to understand the word compromise
her: understanding and exhibiting are two different things aha just saying
him: OK fine someone that knows how to compromise
her: I'm joking aha I got it
him: I know you're joking but I'm still not sure you're a compromiser
don't you agree? I mean, they also don't go on dates and stuff (I mean they are still fwb) but I mean why else would he ask her that? I think I'm right but I think she's in denial. He does other stuff also like pick her up if she gets stuck without a ride. And she was feeling upset one day about stuff going on with friends and he called her after class to talk about it
also, he lives at home yet has no problem with her potentially meeting his mom! aha like he'll make her breakfast and ask if she wants to eat in the kitchen when his mom is obviously upstairs and they're bound to talk... is that not weird to do? I think he would do his best to keep them apart haha
Who do you think is right?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mayzmay6 answered Wednesday November 14 2012, 9:00 pm: Sure, i can see how you would think that he likes her. However, he could just be trying to be nice. After all, there is a difference. I would just tell her to see if he does like her by maybe breaking the ice, or so they would say. i see where your coming from. But maybe, just maybe he just wants to be nice. I totally agree with your story it seems completly compatible with what your saying. But i dont think he likes her. Just tell her to talk it out with him to see where it goes. and if he did like her, you get the plessure of rubbing it in her face and sayin hahahahhaha i told you. but be a good friend about it...Hope this helps :) [ Mayzmay6's advice column | Ask Mayzmay6 A Question ]
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