Member Since: November 11, 2012
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Last Update: November 27, 2012
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Hey me and my boyfriend text a lot and sometimes we run out if stuff to talk about. We are 14 and just need some good topics. Any ideas? (link)
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im 13, and me and my bf are the same exact way. when we have nothing to talk about, take an hour away from texting him, better yet dont text him back, and let him text you, thats what i do. this can also be a test to see if he trusts you. not saying u should ever test him...but i do this, and it leaves him hanging. but it works. i hope this helps :)
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I've been friends with someone for about 2 years, and we finally got together, which was great! However, he broke up with me after about a week (yeah, I know i got played haha), but that's not what's upsetting me. I was talking to someone that's a mutual friend between my ex and I, and it looks like he was "talking" to others behind my back, WHILE we were dating. I'm just wondering on what I should do about this. Should I confront and ask my ex about this rumor, or go on as if it doesn't bother me? (Even though it does) Thanks and I appreciate it! :) (link)
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He wants it to bother you. So dont let it. go on as if it didnt bother you. But if it REALLY bothers you, say something...dont just confront him tell him that hes missing out on you, and that hes just a backstabber anyway. anyone deserves better then that. GO GIRLL!!! hope this helps :)
~MayzMay
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I am having cramps above my vagina, minor headaches, joint pain, and I am itchy around my vagina. Does this mean I am going to have my period in the next week or so. Anything would help. Thanks! (link)
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it very well mean that your gonna have your period, i dont know how old you are...but it happens from about 10 and up, talk to your mom or whoever you live with, and tell them theres something going on. wear a pad or tampon (depending on age) just in case. you know u have period cramps when it feels like some one punched you in the stomach 10,000 times. but i hope this helps, dont be scared its just growing up. :)
~MayzMay
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OK so my friend has been hooking up with this guy on a weekly basis since the end of August and he does act distant sometimes (like he usually texts her every few days, used to be every other day if not every one but I think he got comfortable. and she also told me they usually make out when they say goodbye but sometimes he doesn't.) from what she tells me I really get the feeling that he cares about her but she won't listen. So she let me read their convo and I think its pretty good evidence that he cares about her and might like her
so it went like this (she said she was bored one day):
her: ask me a question, I'm bored
him: well I guess I never really asked you what you look for in a guy
her: (says what she looks for) and how about you?
him: (says what he looks for) ... and she needs to understand the word compromise
her: understanding and exhibiting are two different things aha just saying
him: OK fine someone that knows how to compromise
her: I'm joking aha I got it
him: I know you're joking but I'm still not sure you're a compromiser
don't you agree? I mean, they also don't go on dates and stuff (I mean they are still fwb) but I mean why else would he ask her that? I think I'm right but I think she's in denial. He does other stuff also like pick her up if she gets stuck without a ride. And she was feeling upset one day about stuff going on with friends and he called her after class to talk about it
also, he lives at home yet has no problem with her potentially meeting his mom! aha like he'll make her breakfast and ask if she wants to eat in the kitchen when his mom is obviously upstairs and they're bound to talk... is that not weird to do? I think he would do his best to keep them apart haha
Who do you think is right? (link)
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Sure, i can see how you would think that he likes her. However, he could just be trying to be nice. After all, there is a difference. I would just tell her to see if he does like her by maybe breaking the ice, or so they would say. i see where your coming from. But maybe, just maybe he just wants to be nice. I totally agree with your story it seems completly compatible with what your saying. But i dont think he likes her. Just tell her to talk it out with him to see where it goes. and if he did like her, you get the plessure of rubbing it in her face and sayin hahahahhaha i told you. but be a good friend about it...Hope this helps :)
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hey guys.Its me again.Ive asked a lot of questions on here, and I appreciate every tidbit of advice and hotline number you give me.so thanks again.to get to the point---im a 13/f cutter and have been scince I was 11 almost evey day.Now I think that Im at my altime low-and its bad.Ive got a lot of scars.Truth is, im terrified about quitting.im ean ive just kinda grown up with this, sick as it is. I dont know anything else. ive also had to grow up around drugs and lots of them. My mom is a stoner and abuses pills and my dad is borderline dead and is very sick. my grandma is also suicidal and smokes weed. so yeah.im also bullied in school for being "emo" which is tottaly fake. So slitting my wrists is a way to ecape and overide their substance abuse with amy self abuse.Iv gotten incredably used to cutting all over my body and have became less sensative to pain and hiding ecverything. im on meds now and they make me cut more but im scared about those too. whats life after the scars?how can i live with them? how do I even begin to stop? im not doing well so assume i havent stopped cutting and possibly did within days becuse its that common for me. sorry for the lenght.thatnks for reading.
also i binge eat and am sometimes sucidal.why am i like this. so worthless i mean. (link)
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Heey Sweety, well...i'm also your age, and i know you probably dont want to hear but...it sounds like u have alot to deal with. First off, with the cutting. I know it feels like your only escape, but its not. I know because, my bestfriend was a cutter since she was 10. She ment so much to me, that i didnt leave her side i was always there for her. When she wanted to cut, i told her she's not only hurting herself, but the people around her. And the same goes for you. As for the binje eating. NO! Dont do that it doesnt solve anything. Thats a serious problem that could put you in a mental care institute for a while. Or even a Nutrition Care unit. Just dont do it, please. STOP doing what your doing to yourself. I know lots in your place as well. PLEASE if your really having problems, go to a counselor at school...they can help. It sounds like you need a friend. Keep your head high Girly
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Ok me and my bf had been dating almost three years and aparently meant nothing :,( he and i went on a break bu were still technically together... He moved on within a day and thats no word of a lie, he actully had done it and then a few days later after not being able to get in contact with him hes on the phone saying he wants to be mates... Honestly i told him that it was way way to hard on me right now because i absoultly loved him with all my heart and i really want to be friends but i heard its the worst thing you can do... I want him back... He also rang up another time after and messed with my head saying one minute he really misses me but hes falling in live with his new gf then hes bringing up our happy past and saying that he loved it when id fall asleep on his cheast listening to his heartbeat :,( omg im soo torn up, im crying just talking about it :( (link)
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My friend is going through the same thing...the best thing to do is, tell him exactly how you feel. But also mention that him and his new girlfriend isnt helping you adjust to the situation. Tell him, you dont want contact with him and tell him to lose your number. i know it hurts now, but it gets better..thats a promise, i know it hurts now. But it gets better :) perk up sweedoms
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I just bought these long black leggings but im not sure what to wear them with ? like with shorts or boots ..and is it ok if i just wear them as "jeans"? (link)
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leggins:
1.) long sweaters look great...and its a bonus because they cover your butt haha.
2.)i prefer to wear tan uggs, or any color uggs except for brown because the leggins are black. but flats, flip flops, or uggs. NO SNEAKERS!!!
3.) scrafs are adorable with leggins.
but they are most defiantly not jeans. i hope this helps. :D
~Mayzmay
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So..
Theres a guy in one of my classess I like. We've only spoken twice and the last time was 6 months ago now!
He's shown sign of liking me (looks at me, laughs at things I say) and I overhear him say things to his friends about a girl-the things could easily apply to me I you get what I'm saying.
So, bearing in mind I'm really shy and he's two years older than me, is it abit random to add his as a facebook friend? We have no mutual friends on facebook either :/ (link)
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Do it. you only live once. and lifes to short to worry about what he might think after. worst comes to worst he denies it. so dont be afraid so what u have no mutual friends, hes 2 years older ovbiously theres gonna be no friends in common. Do it girly, hope this helps. :) byee
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So I'm in seventh grade. I found out recently that a lot of kids in my grade aren't virgins.. And I'm jusrt sickened by this. It's been in my mind all day and I can't get it off my mind. How do I make this leave my mind? I'm just not wanting to go to that school anymore, but my friends are there... (link)
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I'm in 8th grade, and alot of kids in my grade started loosing their virginity in 6th grade, it's gross i agree, but keep in mind...thats their idea of growing up. to make it go away just remember that its not you, and that ur above all of them. show them whos really cool, and dont lose your virginity, because its not cool when it gets around school. so, just dont do it. be the better person and keep it in your pants. hope this helps :)
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It seems to me like ilI get lead on a lot. A couple of months ago a guy asked me out on a date 3 times and bailed on all three. He then randomly stopped talking to me and talked to another girl. Recently this guy told me friend I was cute and asked what I thought. Last week we all hung out and we talked about past relationships and he said that being the nice guy never worked. He said he always got hurt. So I told him to be the "middle man". He later on told me he thought he was my "middle man". We are suppose to hang out again today but I found out he went on a date with a girl yesterday. I am beyond mad, I don't think I can look at him without being pissed. This seems to happen to me so often and I don't understand why. Why do guys lead me on so much? What can I di to change this? (link)
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i understand how u feel. but its not you. honestly. if they lead you on...thats there problem, they dont know how to treat a girl. thats not your fault. i've been lead on multiple times, and sometimes its because they like you, but their just not ready for a relationship. so keep your head up and dont settle for just anyone. just be yourself. :) hope that helps.
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i need to know how to get someone interested there is two guys i like and want them to like me back but how ?
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Just be yourself, if they like yu they will talk to you. Just be patient. And it will all come together in the end.
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Hi Dayra well my story is kinda like yours MY friend and me were making out till her sister found out of course we were naked and she wanted me to lick her pussy and later we parted because i told her i am done am i LESBIAN? (link)
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no. you are not lesbian. its not like you two did it everyday...
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My mom is getting a divorce, and I need advice on how to cope with it. I am sad but I keep it to myself because if I tell my mom she will give me a lecture instead of advice. Anyone have advice. Thanks if you do. If you don't that's fine. (link)
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my parents got a divorce last year. on my birthday...but talk to a counselor at school or even to ur mom ik it seems like it will be a lecture but she wants u to understand. just tell her "mom, i've been acting different towards you and dad...because this who situation is getting to me" and if she doesnt understand, always remember it wasnt because of you. it will be okaay. if i can do it...u can too.
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Ok this is a long question i'm sorry but this is how lost I am right now, i'm asking a question on the internet.. my friend.. she lives a state away from me, and her mom is pretty much evil and hates her, she made her stay with this 19 year old guy last night and he did stuff to her and i know he sexually assaulted her, shes 15, she told her mom and her mom said, well since you had so much fun, you get to go back there next week for longer, her mom wants this guy to do this! what can i do? i'm a male and i'm 16 (link)
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what you can do is...tell your parents and have them help you. this is your friend, and even though she may not seem like it she is truly screaming for your help. talk to your parents and tell them whats going on. and see if they can do anything for you and her. or you personally can talk to her mom, and if u feel that that would get her in trouble, stick to talking to ur parents. i promise, she'll be happy.
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