Member Since: November 17, 2012
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Ok, so here's the story.
I'm 17, a senior in high school, and I just can't stop thinking about this girl I like.
Over the summer I was lifeguarding with her in a camp upstate, we both lived on the same grounds so we saw eachother every day. For the first week or so that I was there we seriously hit it off, we talked to eachother for what seemed like hours, went on walks to the horse ranch nearby, and so on. Then for a little while she just suddenly stopped talking to me for the next 2 weeks, I confronted her about it and she told me that I had been acting a lot like my roommate, who in her opinion was a major tool. We made up and continued being friends, just we never got as close as we were that first week we met.
Over the course of the summer I found out she kinda had this guy who she liked, and he like her(a lot apparently) but because he had strict parents they couldn't go out, I got some hints over the summer that she might go out with me, and she even told me the fact that this guy can't go out with her wouldn't stop her from going out with other guys.
I can't stop thinking about her, it's getting really frustrating, it's been about 5 months since we met and I guess we are friends(we talk occasionally, I rarely see her though), I really want to be with her, but I seriously don't wanna kill a good friendship and make things awkward.
So my question is, is there anything I can do to make a move at going out with her? Or should I just leave it as it is, and get over it as best I can?
P.S. We don't go to the same school but live in the same area, she's one grade below me(but like 3 months younger)
P.P.S. Sorry I reposted this, last time apparently I did it anonymously. (link)
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It sounds like she was avoiding you because she liked you seriously just tell her how you feel.
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Hey guys. 19/f
Okay so the title is self explanatory. Tonight we were all out for one of my girl friends birthdays.
I have recently started college in September and made a bunch of new friends. One such friend is *Kevin who is gay and who I have become very close with.
Anyway we were all messing about and having a good time getting a bit tipsy etc. Then one of the girls and Kevin kissed joking around. We all said we would kiss him then just for fun because we know he is gay. I joined in not thinking anything of it at the time. The thing is I have a boyfriend!.. I know. I feel like an absolute skank. It was our three year anniversary last weekend and everything. I feel so horrible. All of my friends were trying to reassure me that because he is gay and because we are such good friends it doesn't mean anything and it's not a big deal. It would be like if I kissed one of them..etc. But for me it is a big deal. I've never kissed anyone else in the whole time i've been with my boyfriend. I feel like i've let myself down and him down. What do I do? Do I tell him about this? My friends say I shouldn't because Im causing him unnecessary hurt. I don't want to make excuses for myself or anything but I was having such a good time I completely lost my mind. That's NEVER happened to me. No matter how many guys have hit on me I've never entertained it. Am I over thinking this? Am I being too hard on myself? What would you do? Should I tell him or leave it be? I know he'd be very weird about it. Please help.
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Oh don't worry, tell him and I'm sure he will be okay with it, I've always wanted a gay best friend myself ^.^ tell him.
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Hi I am 18 and live in south Africa!I have something very strange that has happened to me today for the second time! About a year ago I fell pregnant but lost my baby! Before I lost my baby something strange happened! A piece like tissue like piece of skin with blood came out of my vagina, I started my period yesterday and today the same thing happened ! I do struggle from amens pain when I am close or on my period but after that today it was worse and I had this burning sensation inside! I really need help or something as I am worried! (link)
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If you hit puberty late then it's quite normal for you to have problems, go see a doctor.
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I need some advice from anyone who will respond no smart remarks or judgement please... Me an my wife have been together since we were 16, we're both 20 an we married at 18. I'm in the military an she has always been supportive of my decisions an actions but the other week we had a falling out which has been happening a lot lately. She wants a divorce cause she says she can't do it anymore an that she is no longer in love with me... We have never broken up an she has never left me but I'm not gonna lie I haven't been the best husband an I have a short temper which has always been the cause for all of our arguments. I AM THE CAUSE IF THIS I REALIZE THAT NOW AFTER ALL THIS TIME I'VE BEEN SO NIEVE TO THE SITUATION AN OUR MARRAIGE! She is my life an I love her more than she could possibly imagine I wanna make this work! I told her I'm gonna get help (anger management) an also marraige counseling I wanna do anything that will show her that I can change an be the man that she fell in love with. (link)
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You just have to sit down and talk formally, just hold her tight and tell her you're gonna get help and ask her not to leave, you realise you need help.
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Im crying right now so Im kinda in a fragile state of mind. So I try all the time in school and i feel like no one else truly understands. Publically people think im so nice when I'm not. They don't know me really. When I get home I want time to myself. I came home at 6 today and I hadn't eaten at all. I go in my room and as soon as I open my mouth to eat, my mom yells my name. she does this VERY frequently. So I yell "okaaaay!" She came up to my room and I basically said "I just got home im tired, I havent ate, leave me alone" (In a yelling complaining voice) To make a long story short, my mom thinks im like my oldest sister and im gonna turn into this bad teen and hit her and all that stuff. Im my own person, I skipped lunch just to do homework at the library, I stayed after for algebra tutorials, and I try. When I get home im always yelled and hit at. My attitude can be bad but so is my mothers. She never lets me go over a friends house, EVER. I can't have a social life, she raises us to be antisocial. She's got issues she hasn't dealt with nor does she think even exists. So back to what happened. She got so mad that she threw my laptop down, punched the wall, tipped my orange juice over and started yelling at how much she wanted to hit me. Im so sick and tired of this. Tired of trying. Im sorry I have a short fuse but im not a bad person, I dont drink, smoke, cuss her out, hit her. NONE of the things my oldest sister use to do. Im a good girl and I get treated like crap sometimes. Im done, so tired I just cant. So now im grounded without this laptop I now have to give up and my ipod....my only source of music. As dramatic as this posts sounds its more serious than you think. I want to hit her and as soon as that day happens is the day I can't turn back. She will treat me like my oldest sister and it will be hell for my teenage life.So its a lose/lose situation. FML. Sometimes I just wanna call CPS and go live somewhere else....oh wait my oldest sis tried that. Sometimes I wanna die....oh wait thats taken too. So I just have to live in hell for the next 4 years...FML. Advice? (link)
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That's the same as me, my mother hates me too and she had also tries hitting me once with my drawing pad...she ripped it up...
Call childline or whatever it is where you are because m dad died when I was young, my mother is a drug addict and all she does is sleep so I make all my meals and do everything for myself your only hope Is childline trust me do it before it gets worse you don't want to make the mistake I made, my mother even came to look at me and say she doesn't even know why she is still here and hasnt left me yet. CALL CHILDLINE NOW.
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I pre ordered The Sims 3 seasons Sept 30th and on Nov 9th I finally got the email that it was being shipped to me along with a tracking number. The number is for UPS mail innovations. I tracked my game all last week by the tracking number through cities and on Monday the 12th my package got to TETERBORO, NJ which is about an hour and a half away from me according to Google Maps. Ever since then, my package has not left that town. Around Wednesday my tracking page got this message in a yellow banner saying "This shipment is progressing through the postal system to the final destination." But it's been almost a week. My estimated delivery date was on the 15th and it's now 2 days late with no change it cities.
I tried having a live chat with UPS to figure out what was wrong today but all they said was that my package is being shipped via the US postal service, not help whatsoever since I already knew that.
http://tinypic.com/r/2ey7uyp/6 This ling leads you to a picture of my tracking page with my info crossed out so everyone can see what I'm seeing.
I'm extremely annoyed, does this mean my order was lost? Is there anything I can do about it? I'd rather not see $40 go down the drain. (link)
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iv been with my girlfriend for 1 year 3months now im 20 and shes 17 and she gets on better with lads than girls, she's started work in a male enviroment, she gets on well and bit close to her manager but hes gay and some of the blokes their flirt with her. should i be worried about her doing anythink? (link)
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Don't worry about it. As long as she doesn't respond to their flirts in a positive way you'll be fine. I like hanging around with Boys too...girls are bitches...and don't diss the gay dude...gay dudes are awesome I always wanted a gay friend lol :) don't worry.
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