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i think i'm fat
13/f
hi, okaay so im 13 and a female,im really nice and pretty(not to sound self concieded)and i have exactly what i want all around me. Unfortunatly, kids in my school are all picky about what u wear and how fat you are. i have a boyfriend. and i have over 225 friends. i'm one of the more social (popular) kids in school, but for the first time today i was called fat. it bothers me so much now that, i cant wear anything but yoga pants without feeling fat. i hardly ever eat, but when i do its soup salads chicken and healthy stuff. i'm not anorexic, i eat 3 meals a day, i just dont eat anything in between. it keeps getting to me, and now i wonder alot more often, why i have such a good boyfriend, so many good friends, etc...i dont know what to think of my self anymore. how do i go back to the old me?
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Ick. DO NOT listen to whoever said that, trust me. If you are as great as you say you are you do not have anything to worry about. People obviously like you for you, not for what you look like--which I am almost positive cannot be that bad.
Its good that you are not anorexic and do not even think about going down that path. You are doing the right thing with eating healthy, you should be doing that anyways. I highly suggest working out on a regular basis and if you play sports, thats great too. If not, either power walking or jogging can only be a good thing for you. Working out helps with the body, mind and spirit. But don't do it because someone called you fat, do it because you know its good for you and you will feel great after. But I will repeat, DO NOT do this for other people or for the person who called you fat. Everyone should do some sort of physical exercise 3 to 5 times a week. I'm in the military so of course I'm going to push some physical fitness on you :P
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Look hun I do modeling and I'm 12 so not that much younger than you,I also feel fat somettimes. I'm very self consious about what I eat what I wear I'm so scared of what people think BUT what I did was not eat at all after a while I started trying laxitives but then I stopped because I realized its wrong. You musnt worry about what people think of you just remember even the most famous people and models such as VS models or anyone actually everyone has inseucrities just some people don't let it get to them and that's how they got to where they are today. I'm also trying to say you musnt try starve yourself or take laxitives or anything if you really are worried about your weight try exercise and eat healthy if its the 1st time I'm sure you not that persons just trying to get you down trust me I have a lot of experience when it comes to thees things. It sure would help if you told us your weight but anyway if you are tall then you will weigh a lot anyway but you really musnt let it get to you doll hope I helped :) x
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If this is the first time someone has EVER called you fat you are not. That's how people get to eachother. They say it to be mean. Usually what they said is never true. And honestly if you want to be all scientifically about if you are obese or not you have to take into consideration your height and your weight and you could easily find out if you are overweight. But hon honestly if this is the first time ever I would choose to ignore it.
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loook dont feel that way!you dont have to be super model skinny!im not i have slight weigh but still good!boys and girls are just jelly!
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