Member Since: November 12, 2012
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Last Update: November 13, 2012
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so my friend leaved the school before 2 weeks.I am not her bestfriends but I am considering her as my sister
she is older than all of the class because she fails alot but no one knows that except me and her bestfriends .When I was in middle school she was on my class but now she isn't. In secondary school I use to write to her the exams and give her it in the break ,because we take the exam before her class by one period or two .Also her class teachers is my teachers too. I do that because I know accidently that she is old than us and I don't want her to fail again
but she absented before 2 weeks until now so when I ask her bestfriends they said to me :we don't know why she is absent and I kept asking about her and calling her but no answer.
at the end I ask her bestfriends again.Then one of them said to me that: she will come today.so I be happy and I said: I am writing to her every exam that we had. Her bestfriend said: she won't come to study so I socked then she said too: she will come to say good bye for us She is sick will do a process in her heart . Then I cried all the period even teachers look at me a wondering why
when she came I was busy so she didn't see me
and now I am calling her everyday she is not answering.Yesterday when I called her she answered but she didn't talk. I kept saying hello hello then she closed the line
I don't know why she is not answering
what should i do
the final exams is after 3 weeks and she won't come she will travel to do a process.she will fail
sorry about bad English I am writing too fast it's late now and thanks hope it's clear for everyone how wants to help (link)
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You should go visit her. See if what her best friends said about her is true. You aren't going to know for sure unless you visited her.
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I have a friend from UK, his name is Philip Moore and i have a problem because of him. is he a good guy? (link)
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For me to give you advice I would need to know what the problem is to know if he is a "good" guy. Even than you can't really tell if someone is good or bad from a problem.
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okay,first off ive been in a relationship for 2 months and a week! my boyfriend is nice loving and loves me. but here lately hes been hanging out with some perves and jerks.its sorta changed him...i mean he doesnt want to hang out with me around them.do you think hes trying to protect me from them?should i be worried (link)
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The advice I have is that you should just confront him about it. I don't think you should be worried. Maybe he just doesn't want you around. Maybe he just needs some time with his friends. I know that sounds kind of harsh but boys also need space sometimes. Also it kind of takes men a while to mature so just have a talk with him about your relationship and his friends.
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my name is Rachel and i am 23 years old starting in January i am going to be baby sitting my cousin who is 21 years old but he has autism and has the mind of a 2 year old and when I go over there to his house i have noticed that all he does is sit there and watch barney. I mean there is nothing wrong with him watching barney every now and then in my opinion but i was wanting to get him to try to do some other things. what kind of games can I play with him or does any body have any arts and crafts ideas that I can try? Does any body of any fun ideas that I can try with my cousin while i am baby sitting him ? (link)
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Well I too have a physically disabled cousin but she is 2 about to turn three so things are a bit different. But usually autistic people have certain talents over things that are incredible you should find out what that talent is. His talent may be that he is really good with memorizing every show of barney make quizzes and games out of it. Watch and episode of barney and reanact some of it if you can get him too. My cousin though she likes music see if you can get your cousin to dance to some music.
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My mom creates arguments and fights about EVERYTHING. Ever since she got a new promotion its only gotten worse during the week. When my oldest sister "K" was 15, she went through a stage where she was the worst teen ever, fights, mental stuff,probation etc etc etc. They always verbally and physically fought. Well now she is 20 and doing great with her life. She's in the military, she's got her life together and that's great. But, that left an effect on my mother, she treats me and my other big sister like crap. She cusses us out, gets mad over the house not being clean, says we disrespect her and we don't. She's been through a lot in her life and has kept it together but she makes us antisocial and she acts as if we really are bad teens. We don't get in fights, drink, smoke, have sex, NONE of that. Yet she gets in our faces, cusses us out, has the audacity to hit us. Sometimes I want to do what my oldest sister did. I want to hit her so badly but I already know what will happen. I will never go back once I do that and she'll tell the whole family. Plus the fact that I look alot like my oldest sister doesn't help. I have a much shorter temper fuse which doesn't help. But back when we had all those issues going on, I vowed I would never lay a hand on my mother or any of that, but she makes it SO hard. I'm not a bad teen, I do NOTHING wrong. So what if I get an attitude when she's yelling at me for not saying hello (Its the morning and I can't open my mouth before I brush.) ? Do I deserve to be yelled at? I can't take this. I'm 15 and I've got a lot more years to go with her. I can't ever go over my friends house, take a ride home or any of that without her making it etremely hard. I just wanna hurry and get this all over with and start my life. ANY ADVICE? PLEASE.......... (link)
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I have the same problem kind of. My mom gets mad over nothing all the time and when she is around she is always telling us to clean up around the house and my mom makes it difficult because she is ylling about how bad of a job we did.blah blah blah ect...anyway I found that when my mom is gone i like to get my work done without her there because than I don't have her always looking over my back getting ready to yell at me for not doing something right. I would also consider getting closer to your mom. Do what she likes. My mom loves to read and when she is in a pissy mood I talk about books or cooking she loves those things. Tell her things that don't remind her about her aspects of life she can't stand at the moment. You should also try getting a break from her by sleeping over at a friends house. Because sometimes you need those breaks to just cool down. Even if you have to do a lot of work just to go at least you get a break from them. Just the other night I went to afriends house and to do that I had to clean the house for a week but it was worth it in the end.
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I am always being yelled at. Mostly "WHAT THE H*LL IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?!??", "I HATE YOU!", "WHY CAN'T YOU BE LIKE YOUR SISTER?!??", and "nobody likes fat people. If you are fat nobody will love you and you will die alone."
A few things he calls me are:
Fat
Stupid
Ugly
Lazy
How he makes me feel:
Fat
Stupid
Ugly
Lazy
Untalented
Worthless
Crazy
Like its always my fault
Alone
Unloved
Depressed
Suicidal
Things that have resulted from constant yelling,name calling, and a few beatings:
Him saying he hates me
Him refusing to feed me
Confusion of sexuality
Shyness
Suicidal thoughts
Thoughts of killing him
Plans to run away
Attempted cutting
Attempted purging
Attempts to starve myself. Fantasy coping (only a few hours spent in reality)
Scared of men
Hate being touched
Hate him
Hate relationships with people
Have to sever all relationships with men after 3 months
Loner
Don't trust people
Confusion (mostly of if I'm being abused and if he ever molested me)
Foggy memories of him laying on top of me asleep and I want to get away but can't.
Self hatred
A few things he has done:
Refused to feed me
Compare me to sister
Forced me to lay in bed with him
Forced me to hug him
Forced me to sit in his lap
Forced me to kiss his mouth (long time)
Yells if I don't let him lay with me in bed
Stomped my dogs head in the ground
Threw one of my dogs across the concrete
I don't want to call authorities when I have so much to be happy about. I.e- four friends that sometimes pay attention to me, two dogs and a cat that love me very much, a big yard, and im in the middle class money area. I know some people go through so much more (beatings,rape,neglect, homeless,broke, etc.) so I really don't mean to complain. It's weird that I'm just now thinking that this may be abuse (like how when my older sister was 6 he told her she got to fat and forced her to get on the treadmill everyday even though she was an average weight.) For some reason I just have a strong feeling I was raped or molested and so was my sister but I just don't know....thank you.
I'm a 13yr old female.
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I don't want to sound mean but even though you say people have it worse you are probably in that category. You need to get help from someone. That is abuse verbally and mentally. You need to get away from there and call the police. Because no one should be treated like that.
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hi, okaay so im 13 and a female,im really nice and pretty(not to sound self concieded)and i have exactly what i want all around me. Unfortunatly, kids in my school are all picky about what u wear and how fat you are. i have a boyfriend. and i have over 225 friends. i'm one of the more social (popular) kids in school, but for the first time today i was called fat. it bothers me so much now that, i cant wear anything but yoga pants without feeling fat. i hardly ever eat, but when i do its soup salads chicken and healthy stuff. i'm not anorexic, i eat 3 meals a day, i just dont eat anything in between. it keeps getting to me, and now i wonder alot more often, why i have such a good boyfriend, so many good friends, etc...i dont know what to think of my self anymore. how do i go back to the old me? (link)
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If this is the first time someone has EVER called you fat you are not. That's how people get to eachother. They say it to be mean. Usually what they said is never true. And honestly if you want to be all scientifically about if you are obese or not you have to take into consideration your height and your weight and you could easily find out if you are overweight. But hon honestly if this is the first time ever I would choose to ignore it.
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last year in grade 6 a guy named shane asked me out at after care where we were by the junior side he went on his knees and asked me out i said no because i would have to tell my parents and one of them would have to come with but i like him so much
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First of all that sounds super sweet. But if you really do like him even your parents won't stand in your way. Just have a conversation with your parents about it. I say go to your mom about. She would probably be the most understanding and make an arrangment with them about about. I mean you are only in 7th grade and you still have plenty of time.
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okay so theres this guy who i'll call Popcorn who i used to talk to for five months this past year but then after i told him how i felt he said he didn't like me and liked some other girl. and so then we stop talking but he always acted interested and flirted but we never met in person.
and now the school year restarted and so every time i see Popcorn or get close i start to shake really bad. (why's that?)and now his friend Tire set me up with one of his friends Van and we've hit it off.
but then again Popcorn tends to stares at me whenever he sees me. like in the hallways passing by me and anywhere else. and then so today i was in my cafeteria because i didn't have my teacher in school. so i was in the cafeteria and then Popcorn walks in and he had to have seen me and he looked at me and my heart legit JUMPED out of my chest. and so he went somewhere and then left and he kind of walked fast leaving the cafeteria like he was trying to get out of there but keep cool and then when he turned to go up the stairs I saw his face look my way and I quickly looked down.
But I just wanted to know why he acts like this and if he’s like second guessing when he stopped talking to me at all or something? But up in the second paragraph like I said I shake really bad when I see him, why’s that? Like last time I almost bumped into him and I could barely get up the stairs because my legs were shaking so bad?
But yeah that’s pretty much all. I just want to know if he's staring because he still thinks about me or just because it’s a habit to because he would always look at me last year and smile at me and stuff so I don’t know.
please help me. it'd mean alot. thanks! (link)
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Honestly he likes you. Girls aren't the only ones who are shy. You should just confront him. I know it's easier said than done but your never going to figure any of this out if you don't confront him. You aren't just going to magically figure everything out from and advice column. And the reason (well most of the time) girls shake because they are super nervous and don't want to be rejected or rejected again.
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