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Virginty: I need to bleed on my wedding night, but I am not a virgin. What can I do?
I'm Muslim I'm not a virgin. I need to find a way to bleed on my wedding night. It's a culture thing. Don't talk about trust please.
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The only thing I will add is that you could tell him because you use tampons for your period insertion of them has stretched the hymen and bleeding likely won't happen. That is something he should understand.
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I've heard that there may be a surgical procedure your gynecologist might do for you to implant a hymen in you. Whether you will bleed or not or if your gynecologist will do this for you I do not know.
If you are able to have the procedure you new husband will feel the restriction to his entering you. You should feel the proper amount of pain in the tearing of the replacement Hymen to make the right sounds to satisfy your husband.
Fact is though you do not have to have a Hyman to be a virgin. Many girls, especially those that have played sports, go horse back riding or use tampons have lost their hymens long before marriage and therefore have no reason to bleed on their weeding night. Also if you had any type of gynecological problem prior to marriage. It may have been necessary for the doctor to break your Hyman to care for you properly.
My suggestion is to tell your future husband that you no longer possess a Hyman, for whatever reason you chose to give him. That because of this do not expect you to bleed on your wedding night.
Without a Hymen there is no other way to tell if you are a virgin or not. without a Hymen to tear you will not bleed as you know. Even if you easily accept his penetration it does not mean you are not a virgin. You of course can practice controlling those muscle to clamp down when he attempts penetration so as to be tighter the first time.
Unless you live in a Muslim country and this is an arranged marriage, I suggest honesty. Tell your future husband the truth. I'm almost certain he has had the opportunity to sample the womanly delights of some other women, even in a Muslin country.
In a non Muslin Country like the USA if you are an adult you are entitled to a life of your own before marriage and that includes a sex life. If he truly loves you your being a non virgin will mean nothing to him.
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I can't think of anyway that would make sense without secretly cutting yourself I guess and I think that's a pretty bad idea.
Not everyone bleeds, maybe you could be one of those girls who doesn't? some of my friends didn't bleed, just act very surprised I suppose
Best of luck x
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...erm... well... the only way for that to happen is if he has a larger dick from the ones you've already experienced and you had really rough sex. But you could always have sex with him on your period. Gross, but it would work.
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