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I like a guy at school but don't know if he likes methe same way?
I have been liking this guy for over a year and a half. Eventually last year I thought that he wold of asked me out but he never did, but I don't get why? Ok so we would have two classes together and we got pretty close, eventually I would get mixed signals, because he would stare at me during lunch class and sometimes even in the hallways, but then he would always be around this other girl who is extremely pretty. He would walk her to class and talk to her i front of me, and would glance at my direction. We always held glances and I would feel chills. And a couple of days ago when we were in art detention we both sat together and I was like someone smells good and he was like I know I do, and I was like sure... Eventually he then said that people get attracted to certain cents and I just looked at him and smile. He looks back at me and smiles back, but when we are in regular school he doesn't even say hi to me, I'm confused please help
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I think he's interested but too shy to stick his neck out as he dreads rejection. He's trying to get you to pull the trigger first so he doesn't need to. That's why all the glances, mild flirting etc. He's just a tad rattled.
Although it's not an easy thing you NEED to be honest and talk to him. Mention that you may be reading his body language and signals wrong but that you want to know where things stand with him so you don't miss a potential opportunity.
Another approach would be to invite him out with a group of friends for a movie, party or whatever comes to mind and see if he takes the invite. If he's in to you he will move mountains to go--trust me. Sometimes if a gal wants something she has to get gutsy and go after it. At least you will know.
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I know you're in high school, and this is probably totally unheard of...
But why don't you just ask HIM out?
He's just as scared of you as you are of him, you know. Being a guy doesn't mean that you're any better equipped to handle possible rejection.
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Hey .
well my crush does the same thing .. ! soo i just wrote him a letter and told him i still liked him since last year ....and i send my friend to ask him if he liked that girl !
youu should talk to him or write to him and see how he feels about youu ! or wait to see if theres any other signals ^.^
good luck !
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