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How can I get my friend back?
There is this girl that I like..and I said that i would go to her volleyball state championship game. I promised her that i would go, but i still did not go. Now she is not happy with me. What do I do to get us back on the same page???
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You need to do something really nice for her... or get her something awesome that's vollyball related... that would be really cute and show you're sorry.
But guy... you can't blow stuff off like that. Girls are fickle little things and they remember everything. You hurt her feelings.
Figure out a way to show her you care, and that you're sorry, and don't do it again. She won't forgive you twice.
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Is this a serious question!? If you didn't want to make her mad you should have NEVER promised her in the first place. And apology is not going to work. Take it from a girls perspective. She's thinking that she wasn't worth it for you to come to a stupid vollyball game. You couldn't make time out of your day to do it. You broke a promise to her and that loses trust. You have ruined it and YOU have to figure out how to make it better. You can't just do what you did and expect her to be on the same page as you, she has no idea why you skipped ahead anyhow. She thought you were on the same page with her, and then you said you would do something you didn't do and broke a promise you made to her. Make it up to her and take her out to dinner. Go see a movie without putting your hands all over her, or hitting on her. Just be there for her and NEVER break a promise. We take that stuff seriously.
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Just apologize and tell her that you'll make the next one.
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