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Add as friend or not?
17/f
Theres a guy in one of my classes-I think he likes me, because he's always looking at me and on the one occasion when we did talk he kept laughing at my jokes.And he shuffles awkawardly when I answer in class
I overheard him say (but he doesn't know) blah blah... 'but I'd never ask her out because I don't think she likes me...'Then his friends looked across at me.
So I'm 60% sure he likes me but then he could be talking about someone else. Should I add him on facebook to show interest or will this backfire if he's not interested? We've only had like 2 conversations.
Thanks for any advice :)
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Just add him... I've added plenty of people after a random run in at a party through a mutual friend. It's pretty safe and there's pretty much no way it could backfire. Even if he wasn't talking about you at that point, you can start talking to him and maybe he'll fall for you?
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I can't see this backfiring quite honestly. While we don't know if it's you that you overheard him liking people friend classmates all the time and it means nothing. As long as you don't give off a romantic vibe on Facebook or badger him with endless stream of messages you're fine.
In fact, if you messaged him ONCE and asked if he could add you that's fine. Just say "I'm so and so from whatever class and was hoping I could add you as a friend. It would be nice to get to know you.
You see, he's pretty shy or he would be talking to you and not acting awkward. His confidence isn't there so actually emailing on Facebook back and forth may get him to trust you and let you in.
At the same time if you really are interested in him return his gaze, flirt a little, toss your hair (not your cookies) and try talking to him in class and show you are approachable. If there's a dance coming up, a party or something you can do in groups invite him. It's all easier after.
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Adding someone on Facebook is very much safe. I add people I've barely talked to as we'll sometimes, because I think they're cool. I think it's just the right thing to do. If he's interested he will know you're at least partially interested too, if he's not then... You're friends on Facebook. That's really the worst thing that could happen.
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