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suicide: I have been dealing with a break up and I want to kill myself.
I have been dealing with a break up and I want to kill myself. You guys probably think in stupid but over been dating for 6 years and I fell in love hard .. he broke up with me last night I can't deal with it. What's an easy suicide? I'm 20 years old and female.
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I know you think your life can't go on with him but you can and you will. The fact of the matter is it was not meant to be. I truly mean that. I'm not a religious person, I believe in God but not in organized religions. I believe if something was meant to be it would happen for us or we will be able to make something happen for ourselves.
Right now what I hear is the shock over the break up talking as it is very real and very fresh. Having happened only hours ago. So I am not even going to give you my standard lecture about suicide and why you really don't want to do it. For in an hour or a day you will feel better and hopefully after reading our replies understand life goes on and so will yours.
There is someone out there just waiting to meet you. He will be the man of your dreams who will sweep you off your feet and make you forget all about this guy, other than maybe a pleaseant high school memory. For that is what it sounds like what he was and is.
There is one thing you can do right now if you wan to speak to someone who can offer you real help, which is what I suggest. The following is the number for the National Suicide Prevention Hot line. By calling 1-800-273-TALK (8255) you’ll be connected to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area, anytime 24/7. These people can and will be able to help you. If you still feel like hurting yourself call 911 and help will be sent to you.
Please trust us when we say this will pass. I for one am old enough to be your grandfather and I have worked withothers in your position. He is just not worth hurting yourself over. If you reaally want to hurt him; show him you can go on and live a full and better life without him.
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You aren't stupid but you are adrift and not thinking right. Mentally you aren't yourself and need professional help if you can't function at all and desire to die. The simple fact of the matter is that NOBODY at all is worth dying over no matter the circumstance.
You may have been with this person for 6 years and this hurt you badly but relationships come and go. You will eventually move on and yes indeed forget about this one day. To die over this is wrong when you have a ton to accomplish and live for.
If what has happened has made you this depressed please do yourself a favor and go to any ER and tell them the truth about wanting to die because you need professional intervention because you aren't at all well. That's a fact and being 100% brutally honest and straight with you. You'll thank me later as your life is worth it. He's just a guy and with their help you will deal with the issues troubling you about this and see life is worth living.
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Please, tell someone ASAP. If you are in the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255. It is a suicide hotline and they can help you. I dated someone for 7 years. I was heartbroken when he broke up with me. But your life isn't over. I never thought I'd be able to move on. But I did. And so will you. You will move on and you will find someone. I did. I never thought I'd love anyone like him. And I was completely wrong. What if I would have ended my life? I never would have learned what true love really is. You can and will be able to move on. I know it because I thought the exact same thing as you. But I moved on and I can honestly say I don't even care about him anymore. Send me a private message if you want to talk. People are here for you.
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