Can anybody urgently help please.
I want to commit suicide in a peacefull and painless way without jumping infront of moving cars , Laying on a railway track ,jumping from a 17 storey building ,cutting my wrists,taking any kind of a tablets.The remedie i,m looking here for should be 100% death guaranteed without any failures.I would prefer to go to bed at night or day and fall of to sleep and never wake up again.If a had a firearm it would have been easy for me.Please help me with advice which is guaranteed. Thank you
Additional info, added Saturday October 20 2012, 9:12 am: I did receive some brilliant feedback from a previous columnist but unfortunately i want to stick to my original plan.
VoiceofReason answered Sunday October 21 2012, 11:48 pm: Life itself is suicidal because we all die down somewhere down the line.
As for the pain angle, you can't avoid pain when you commit suicide. By perceiving yourself as canceling your personal pain through choosing death you cause pain for many others that may last a lifetime (a form of survivor's guilt---could I have done more to ensure that the person would continue to carry on?).
Thus, it is fundamentally unfair for you to commit suicide because nobody has the right to impose pain on another lest that other person is endangering your welfare. Call a suicide prevention hotline, ask your school counselor for a referral to a therapist, or something. Often times the depression you feel can be treated with medication, thereby winning you a chance to turn things around for yourself. You gotta take that avenue first before you opt to visit the cemetary because quitters are never happy with themselves in the end. It's only those who took the gamble who, even if they lost, will have a clear conscience. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Sunday October 21 2012, 10:57 am: As A long time member of a fire department rescue squad I can back up what alexigirlie has said. "There is no painless way to die." Life is not like Hollywood where the actor passes quietly in their sleep. At some point the pain kicks in and a call for help goes out. That's were people like me come in. Sometimes we win and sometimes we loose. When we loose the person we are trying to save dies a painful death even with the doctors trying their best.
What I have learned and what I can tell you is; that whatever you problem is that is causing you to want to die. That problem is not so big that it can't be made right. Your problem is at the moment you are too involved and too depressed to see the solution or what can be done to correct the problem or where to turn to for help.
alexigirlie already gave you the number for the National Suicide Prevention Hotline, I will give it to you again. The number is 1-800-273-TALK (8255). By calling 1-800-273-TALK (8255) you’ll be connected to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area, anytime 24/7. People better able to help you than we are since they can also talk to you one one one.
I am also going to include another number since many suicides are the result of Rape or abuse. There is another organization known as RAINN. Which stands for Rape, Abuse, Incest, National Network. The people who answer this Hotline are also better trained and better capable than we are to help you and help you find the right people to continue helping you feel better about yourself and solve your problem(s). That number is 1-800-656-HOPE.
There is no problem to big that it cannot be resolved with the right kind of help. No one wants to see you hurt yourself. IF you do feel suicidal pick up the phone and dial 911. Help will be sent to you.
alexisgirlie answered Saturday October 20 2012, 5:48 pm: No one here is going to advice you on the easiest way to commit suicide. Just as a side note, committing suicide is extremely painful, there is absolutely no easy way to do it.
You have to ask yourself this question, do you want to end your life, or do you rather want your pain to go away and be happy again? Believe me, the second option is far better. You are in unfathomable pain right now, and you don't deserve it, nor do you deserve to die. You deserve a good life, you deserve to be loved, and you deserve to be happy. Don't settle for a life of pain, go get help, your life will get so much better.
I'm sure there are many great things in store for you in the future. There are many people who care about you and love you and they will be absolutely devastated if anything bad ever happened to you.
You just have to reach out to those who can help you. You can call 1800.SUICIDE or 1800.273.TALK, the calls are confidential and they can help you a lot.
Remember that you are a beautiful person of infinite value, and the world cannot afford to lose you, you are too precious.
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