There are no tests now to test men to see if they have such a disease, but there is for women. As a result men can contract the disease, not show any symptoms, and spread it around to multiple women. They can find out through an HPV test or an abnormal pap smear.
Statistics state 3 of every 4 women get the disease at some point in their life. You need to be extremely careful nowadays, even with just fooling around.
I don't mean to freak you out, but it's just the way things are. I suggest you and your partner get the vaccine (Gardasil) which protects you against two types of the main types of HPV that cause cancer and the main type that causes genital warts.
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.