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is this a ghost!?
Ok well I'm a 12 year old girl. Well wen I was 4 my twin brother,daniel died of cancer. Well you see today he's been dead for about 6 years and when I woke up I saw him he smiled at me and I said hello and he waved at me. He told me that I musnt worry and that he's ok and its better that he died and didn't suffer. I'm not sure if this is my imagination or what because I kept seeing him! And he looks exactly like he did when he was 4 :( please let me know what you think! I need to know what's going on! Me and him were like best friends before he died
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Hello. My sympathies. It's often said that twins share a particular closeness unlike any other human relationship. Given the biological facts that's understandable. The mind also 'keeps hold' of traumatic events in a way I won't bore you with but when people say they remember the scene perfectly and keep seeing it over & over again, it's quite true. It must have been traumatic, and also at 4 years somewhat beyond your full comprehension. These mental-loops fade with time, but at the same time your understanding has matured a lot. Do NOT under-estimate the power of the sub-concious mind. The visions are real, as much as any thought-idea is real. You're mind is throwing them up in an attempt to force you to confront and accept them. Now, I can tell you that your are not 'losing it'. Quite the contrary...you're dealing with it! And naturally there are no such things as ghosts, be sure of that. The sentiments come from within yourself. You mustn't worry. There was no suffering. And yes, it WAS 'better' at the end, though tragic that it had to happen at all of course. Things you already know in your concious mind, just being re-affirmed. That dreadful shock is only really coming out now in a way, now your mind is able to fully handle it. Don't worry. You're doing OK there! Your parents will have faced the same mental 'demons', but at the time. Talk to them. Naturally you will never forget it. Kinder if our minds would let us eh? But it doesn't work like that. Aim instead for 'acceptance'.
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