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I am trying to understand my sexuality. I crossdress even though I am not attracted to men?
This may or not be a typical question but Im sure it will throw you for a loop.....! Im a straight guy who is not attracted to men at all, even in the slightest detail. I had early sex as a child with a friend of the same sex. Here is the million dollar question. I get a feeling of power and a huge sexual turn on by xdressing as a girl with all the hot stuff, wig and make up and all and have been told by the same sex I am attractive and sexy and passable when dressed up and I have had sex with males while dressed which is a huge turn on, however !!! here is the question......as soon as it is over and I go back to being a male, Im the straightest guy on the planet and have always been seriously sexually attracted to females my whole life ! I dont think about males or even being with one except when I dress and even then, I dont feel attracted to men, just the act of being a girl with one....I know myself well enough that I know Im NOT gay or even when I ask myself am I bi-sexual, that doesnt even apply in my mind because I ask myself am I just as attracted to men as women and the answer is seriously NO....is there a medical or psychlogical name for what I do? Is it normal? Any advice for me would be more than enlightening and would be appreciated more than u could ever know.
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I agree with russianspy1234. There are way more than three categories. You don't have to be gay, straight, or bisexual. Sexuality is a lot more complex than that. There are others out there with your orientation, you're not the only one. Hard to believe, right? Have you ever heard of the website fetlife? The best way I can describe it is that it's like myspace for fetishes. If you're interested in this sort of thing, you can probably find and chat with others on fetlife about your unique orientation and what you're going through. As with any online situation be careful what personal information you reveal and remember that not everyone is necessarily who they seem. I'm not sure of your age, but I think that you may have to be 18 to sign up. Good luck!
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Well I can tell you that most crossdressers are straight, but also that most don't have sex with the gender they aren't attracted to, whether they are dressed or not. Anyways, sexuality is far more fluid and complicated than you hear about day to day or see in movies/TV. I'd say, why bother labeling yourself? You are who you are, and you have sex with who you want to have sex with. Why bother trying to label yourself?
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