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School starts tuesday!
Okay so I'm starting eighth grade and I just got my schedual and everything. I'm yes nerous of the new school year but, who isn't? I'm excited too! But, the problem is I have barley any of my friends with me in some of my classes (I asked on facebook and very few replys) And I asked my friends who were on and they said no :( Nervous about that but, not really a BIG problem. The bigger issue is this girl named venny, me and here were friends I guess last year and still are (I think) but, she posted something saying "say it to my face" blah blah blah. Not to me but, to everyone.So I commented very nice and all some thing I don't like about her. Not specifics but you know just I don't like how she shows her body and I don't think she's christian and stuff. She comes back with all this crap about how she never liked me and called me a jealous bissh (bitch) So I told her ON HER STATUS how I don't like this and that and said how I hated she lost her virginty last year. so everyone knows now. THEN she goes messaging me in private threatening me about cyberbulling WHICH I said in defence she cursed at me first so they can't really do anything. So after a while of bickering back and forth I went to bed. Next day she asks if we wanna be friends so Im like whatever devising a secret plan about how I will take all of her secrets and tell the school. lolol jk. But, not close at least. BUT, at orientation she walked past me and didn't say anything and I just couldn't shake the feeling that she really didn't wanna be friends or changed her mind. TOTALLY fine with that! but, shes quite popular (in a way) and I don't know. she's gettoh unlike me, and she fights other girls. I don't want her to be in any of my classes either. I just don't know like how to deal with her. I guess avoiding is fine. But, I want to have a drama free year as I have to audition for this school I want to go to in highschool and I need to have good grades this year for them to make the final decisions. Thanks for reading!
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It sounds like at one time you both were good friends but she become popular and now she hates everyone including you. my advice from experience is try to avoid her and dont provoke her Thats not good .
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Everyone's different, that's the first thing to understand. She might not be Christian, or at least not be a strict Christian, that's not a reason to dislike somebody though.
It sounds like a usual falling out, and by asking to be friends she probably meant to be civil with each other, maybe she doesn't want to be friendly, and the best way to handle it, in my opinion is one of two options.
1). sit down with her and talk everything out like adults, ask her what you did first, and explain your side of the story, don't accuse her of anything and apologise for your comment about her virginity as it clearly upset her.
2). If that fails, or just doesn't appeal to you, you could just both go your own way, don't cause conflict and just do your own things.
goodluck with everything and I hope you enjoy your school year :)
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