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Can I get my friend back? (please read)
Well, I had this friend last year in middle school and I thought I heard him call me a b*tch. I went up to him and asked him if he called me a b*tch and he yelled and said no and we started yell, but a teacher told us to stop and go onto class. I've been trying since after that day to be his friend again, but now we're in the next grade and aren't in any classes together. My younger brother and his younger brother are in a sport together too. What is the BEST way to get my friend back as fast as possible?
(P.S I am not a boy.)
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Ive had a similar problem, not fun =/ Just play it cool like that never happened and walk up to him at lunch or something and just try to small talk, asking 'long time no talk' and stuff like that. Even try messaging him on facebook, even though its not very good to express yourself over the internet, its the easiest way. Sometimes taking the easy way out can be fine aswell. Just try talking to him on facebook and if things go bad you can always just log off, hope this helps! Inbox me on here how it goes =)
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Your best option is to contact him directly (Facebook, Twitter direct message, letter, email, etc). Just ask how he is. Just say "Hey, it's been a long time! How have you been?"
Then, apologize for what you did. You assumed something, and what you should have done was speak to him privately, and asked if anyone called you a nasty name.
If after you've apologized and have acted civil and nice, he decides not to speak to you, then there's nothing you can do.
All you can then do is just hope that he will speak to you again. Just be a good friend.
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