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is it normal
is it normal to like my half sister and cousin and what should i do my cousins 14 my sister is 20 something im 11 and a tomboyish girl
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When you say say "like," do you mean as in not hate them. Of course it is normal to like them. Why shouldn't you like them? Have they given you any reason not to like them? Just because they are related to you in some case through a parents second marriage is no a reason not to like them or to ignore your cousins by your parents' first marriage either. You are in a manner of speaking related to them all by marriage of a parent. Like any relationship; unless and until someone hurts you then their is no real reason not to like them.
Now if you mean in a sexual way that is different. At 11 you are still trying to figure out your sexuality so it is not unreasonable to like someone of the same sex in a sexual manner. Acting upon it is something different.
By law your sister and first cousins are off limits as it is unlawful to have sexual relations with immediate relatives. While the law speaks to boy girl sex it could be interpreted to lesbian and gay sex as well.
Is it normal to have these feeling the answer is yes. It would also be normal to act on them with anyone other than a family member, especially while trying to figure out who you are sexually.
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It's normal to have feelings that you are confused about. You are only 11, and your body is changing. You can not probably understand these changes properly.
It is normal to be attracted to girls. This is normal.
It is not normal however, to act on these emotions. That is wrong, because it is family. That is against the law.
You are growing. You are changing, and so you will feel confused. You will grow out of it. Try and mix with friends, and other people.
Good luck.
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