What Do I Do? Since The Divorce I Don't Think My Mother Loves Me Anymore.
Question Posted Saturday June 30 2012, 11:10 am
Hello, My mother and father got divorced about a year ago. I am a 12 year old and that was very tough. My mother and father did not get a long. She says "I feel more alive now, free! She has been on some dates and some people have visited but I feel that she feels free from mothering. She feels like she can just take a break from mothering now. It has a very strong affect on me. She does not want to hear the truth and shes one of those people that always think thier right. STUBBORN! Dont get me wrong I love my mom, I just wished she loved me back! What do I do, she never wants to talk?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Xui answered Saturday June 30 2012, 11:42 pm: I don't think you understand what people go through when they divorce, This has nothing to do with your mother not loving you. Yes, she probably feels free but that is not free of being a mother that is free of being in an unhappy marriage. Of course your mother loves you. You are her daughter and you will always come first. Right now your mother probably feels like she wants to go out and have fun, enjoy her freedom and be happy. This is does not mean she doesn't care for you and I really think you should lighten up a little on that. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
Amanii answered Saturday June 30 2012, 4:23 pm: Hello,first i have to inform you that the most valuble thing for a mother is her child.Your mother went through divorce,and it must have been hard dor her even though she didnt show it infromt of you.You should know that your mother will always love you and will always support you no matter what.Understand that people will come and go in your life,but your mom will always be there.Try talking to yor mom and expressing how you truely feel about whats going on,and you will know that she truely does love hou back.So my advice to you is to talk to her and be completely honest with her, she is your mom afterall,and listen to what she has to say.If you need anything else ask me.goodluck.hope i helped.
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