I went over to my friends house the other day with four other people. Two of them are dating and the other two are dating also. We watched a movie and all my 2 friends did was make out! Is it stupid for me to think that it was really rude? I mean they could have at least gone into a different room right? I think there is a limit on PDA and they crossed it.... Is that wrong to think this? Oh btw I'm 14 and a girl.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? lightoftruth answered Wednesday June 20 2012, 5:50 am: It's definitely not wrong to think this. It was extremely rude of them to do that. Why would you want to hang out with them if all they're going to do is make out?
Holding hands and a couple kisses here and there isn't a bad thing but making out while you're all watching a movie is ridiculous.
During prom we went in a limo and we have two friends that are dating. The whole ride home they were making out. Even though there was about 6 other people, it was still extremely rude. You don't do that when you're with your friends. They need to find somewhere else to do that.
Tell them that you don't want to ruin their fun or anything but it's kinda rude to make out while you're sitting there. If they're gonna keep it up then you're not going to hang around them as much because you're just going to be the third wheel and feel awkward.
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Razhie answered Tuesday June 19 2012, 9:43 pm: Nope. You are right. That was really, really rude.
You would have been perfectly right to ask them to stop, or take it someplace else.
JustJessOx answered Tuesday June 19 2012, 7:51 pm: Hey there,
No of course not. It's not wrong to think that at all.
It's always awkward/uncomfortable when two people start making out right in front of you!Especially when you were all meant to be hanging out and watching a movie. It's always tough having to be the third wheel. It was unfair of them to put you in that situation. You are right if they had any respect they would have moved to another room. I recently went travelling with a group of friends,one night we came back to our hostel and two of my friends started having sex in the bunk next to mine. It was disgusting and down right disrespectful,not to mention there was a girl we didn't know sleeping in the bunk below them.
Some people just don't have any consideration. If it happens again politely ask them to stop or move.
If not just don't hang out with them if that's all they are going to do. There is a time and a place.
It may seem old fashioned or whatever,I'm all for holding hands and kissing in public but there is a fine line. Practically kissing the face of one another and mauling each other just isn't nice to see.
Hope I answered your question.
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
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