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BJ question. HELP!!!
During foreplay when I go down on my man, I never know if you're suppose to blow him until he comes, or just stay down there for a couple minutes to get him warmed up before we start to have sex. I've gone down on him until he finished, but once he entered me, he was already tired and couldn't pump anymore which made me get nothing out of it. So my question is, what do the guys expect to receive when girls go down on them begore intercourse? Please help!
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All the above answers are legit. The only addition I have to add is that there are different circumstances in which the result should be different. If you want to have sex with him afterwards, then your blow job should be slow and sensual, turning him on and getting him more pumped up to be inside you. In this case it's not about getting him close to climaxing. The second situation is where you just want to please him. In this case you will do a full effort job, and continue until he cums for you. So ultimately it depends on the situation. Sometimes it feels really good when out of the blue you just do it for him all the way and expect nothing in return.
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If you want to have sex afterwards, stop before he cums.
Matt said it more eloquently.
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Go downtown and then take a ride before I run out of gas.
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You have to ask him what he's wanting here and not anyone else. Each guy is difference but I gather the end result desired by all of the, is climax (release of semen) as orgasm is to females in the same act.
If he's "too tired" and "can't perform" afterwards than you need intercourse first and this later or for him to engage in foreplay or other pleasurable acts for you because it has to go both ways. If he won't or can't reciprocate than you have to tell him no more until he can. Talk to him about this as you really need to if it's bothering you.
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