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Is it even worth it? I cheated on him, then lied about who I was going out with so he thinks I cheated again but I didn't? Why doesn't he trust me? I only cheated once!
I am a 20 year old female. I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year. And basically he doesn't trust me and there's alot of jealousy in our relationship. I cheated on him once and he can't seem to look past it I'm finding out. He's gone alot and I don't have alot of friends that are girls so when he's gone I go out sometimes and he freaks out. I just read his phone the other day saying to his mom " she's going out again I can't believe her" " no mom she's a slut just like all
The rest noone ever treats me right" I am very committed and love him deeply our relationship is exclusive but now he thinks I cheated on him again because I went out and lied about who I went Out with. Of course he read my phone. Now he wants to break up with me and I'm wondering if it's even worth the fight to keep us together. I really thought he was the one but if there's no trust what is there?
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Well there is no one to blame here because both of you too are reading each others phone which is very childish and shows that you don't trust him and he doesn't trust you so therefore the best thing to do is too break up
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Agreed with the other users, No trust or respect
1, You cheated and lied. This is the kill if a relationship. Yes, he is hurt and no longer trust you, Do you blame him? It does not matter if you cheated once it was wrong.
2, Reading someones phone isn't just childish but it shows lack of respect and insecurity. You both invaded each others privacy
Do both of you the favor and end it, Lesson learned
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Surely you must understand why he cannot trust you: not only did you cheat on him, but you also lied. He just seems to think that if you have cheated once before, what is stopping you from doing so again?
But in short, a relationship is based on trust. There is no trust in this relationship. Once trust has gone, it can rarely ever be bought back into a relationship.
My advice: End the relationship, so you can both stop being idiotic and move on with someone else: afresh.
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There is no trust, and not a hell of a lot of respect. On your side or his. All this phone reading is amazingly childish.
So, yes. End the relationship. Go be better with someone else.
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