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Is it a bad thing my girl friend had sex with 34 people
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Well, it can and can't be. If your girlfriend was safe and used protection then you need to look past the number of sexual partners. But I suggest she gets tested to make sure none of her partners had stds. To make sure you yourself is safe while sexually involved with her. Now depending on how old she is, 34 people could be a bad thing. Remember not to judge her. And get tested foryour and her safety :) Remember rather safe then sorry. ]
Some people might say it is. Personally, I'd say that can be rather judgmental, so try to keep an open mind if you really like this girl.
If she takes good care of herself, gets tested between partners and uses protection, I'd say the number doesn't matter. If she's being irresponsible about it, it doesn't matter if the number is 1 or 100... there's still a problem there. It's more about making sure that both partners are safe than it is about "Eew, she's a gross skank".
That said, she's with you now. It shouldn't really matter how many are in her past so long as you're the only one in her future! ]
Well you never said how old she is for one.
Without more information I really can't say...both your ages would be a good start. ]
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