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my lifes a giant mess.
okay, does this sound screwed up to you? my best friends ignore me, and im pretty sure they dont like me cause i can tell they talk about me behind my back (and when im right next to them sometimes) but then two seconds later they skype call me and act like nothings wrong or when they ignore me and act like complete bitches to me and insult me i get upset then one of the may be like "whats wrong?" even though its pretty obvious. and two out of the three of them got in a fight with me once and told the other one they didnt like me but the other one was there for me and fixed everything.. but now shes seeming to be the bitchiest lately. i was in a fwb relationship with this guy who was there for me throughout everything and ALL we did was like cuddle and hangout and go out to eat sometimes and kiss but we hadn't made out yet cause i was waiting for the right time (i mean we weren't even dating so it's not like i was rushing anything) and he just dropped me out of no where cause "it was gettin too serious" even though WE DIDNT EVEN DO ANYTHING. and now hes with some other chick doing the same thing to her. and im prettyy sure he just was using me for a bootycall. even though everything felt real. and now i have to make the decision of moving. honestly i only have to stay in this town for one more year then im for sure moving to a big city but i dont know whether to wait everything out until it gets better or to just move to some really small christian school that i know nothing about. I do have other friends at my school, but i don't know. Right now everythings just screwed up and I have no idea what to do with my life.
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I get the feeling that you are fairly young.
Ok hun...reality check. If your so called friends are talking about you behind your back...they aren't your friends...they're bitches. Good friends don't bad mouth you. I've known plenty of fair weather friends...so over them. Ditch the idiots. You are so better than them. Stick with the friends that make you feel good about yourself.
With regards your FWB...it's about sex nothing but sex. The fact that you are waiting for the right time and you haven't done anything but hangout etc...that's not FWB...that is more of a relationship...hence exit side left buh bye Mr Dipshit. FWB is you scratch my itch, I scratch yours. If you are not ready for sex, then don't get a FWB. It's not about emotions...it's about the moment. Like you said booty call. Booty call = FWB. Understand? Men don't define you...you do!
Take a deep breath, you are not alone in what you are experiencing. You have a year left...and it is a different ballgame in the city. Your life may feel awful...do what you need to do...to be happy, to be confident in yourself. After all it may seem vain but it is all about you...what you want, what you need. Good luck and I hope it all comes good for you.
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Alright hon listen up my date is in the same situation as yours she got betrayed by her bestfriends and heartbroken so its my job as her only date to help her out through all this so i'm not trying to convince you or drag you to my religion but i'm a christian and what you need to do is give God a chance to step into your life just try for once and if you don't want to i understand its okay so another way to feel better is to just express yourself to your best friends say it to their face what you feel about their actions and just walk away and if they care enough they would try their best to get you back but if they didn't bother to try then it's your duty to start seeking new friends although it's your last year in the town but keep trying for new friends you need effort hon you need patience sweety and about the boy let me tell you that there's alot of other boys in that town that suit you and match you perfectly x) good luck hon
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First off you have to understand that life can be hard sometimes. You are moat likely a teenager and ur going through a confusing stage in your life. Your trying to figure out who you are. Sit down and have a talk with your friends. Tell them how you feel. Meet new people and be yourself. Friends are supposed to support you and be there for you. The guy u were dating is a jerk. He doesn't want to be tied down he is young and wants his options open. You were too good for him and that intimidated him. You will find the right guy for you one day. Moving could be the best option. You could meet new people:)
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