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My parents are forcing me to do a treatment 2wice. I don't want to!


Question Posted Wednesday April 25 2012, 6:10 pm

This is a better quality question that I gave more informatiom to you. I'm sorry for the length, but please help me. I NEED help. 

So, hi! I had a treatment twice(i'm sorry, I don't know the name. Let's just call it treatment 1.) and they put a thing in my vagina. I think they called it a catheder, but it didn't look like one. It was a long, clear tube. Anyways, I had that treatment twice, now. And my parents told me I had to do it again. Well, I had a procedure(I don't know what this is called ;-( let's call it treatment 2.) where they put a pebble thing in(Or on) my vagina and they put me FULLY asleep. I'm afraid the treatment 2 will make the treatment 1 hurt more. The treatment 1 hurt a lot but it hurt worse the second time. 
And I think when I didn't tighten my vagina(if you know what I mean) it didn't hurt as much. What do I do? I don't want to do this! My parents are forcing me to. They keep saying it's my last treatment but.. Uhhh! By the way, i'm not pregnant or it's not puberty. Please help as soon as you can!:(


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DangerNerd answered Wednesday April 25 2012, 9:20 pm:
Hello again,

I think I figured out something that would really help:

For some reason, you have no idea what the procedure is called, and you don't know what it does, or why you have had the first two?

You MUST talk to your parents and doctor and explain this. I am sure they think you understand all of this, and can't understand why you are upset. If they knew WHY you were upset, that you don't understand what is happening, it would make a big difference.

If your doctor is bad at explaining things, then ask a NURSE to help you understand.

This may be something that you HAVE to do, or something that you will wish you did when you were young. Again, because you can't tell us WHY this is being done, we aren't having much in the way of a clue for helping you figure it out.

Here is a secret: People are afraid of pretty much everything they don't understand.

If you better understood what was going on, and why it was happening, then you could have a better idea of how much it will hurt, and if it will be worth it in the end.

One more thing: You MUST tell your doctor about it hurting to tighten your vagina more now than it once did.

If you did, then tell them again and ask them what you can expect in the future.

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nascarfan1987 answered Wednesday April 25 2012, 9:08 pm:
Your question still isn't detailed enough.
Why are you having these treatments? If its not pregnancy, or puberty, than why?

How can anyone help you, if you aren't explaining yourself enough? Some of us can probably relate to your situation. If we know exactly what is going on, than we can give you updated advice, on the pain and whatnot.

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