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I hurt him :( I cried for him..
Ok so I recently broke up with my boyfriend and he kind of flirts with my best friend, it bugs me but I dont really seem to mind much. He talked to me today and gave me a hug and said he loves me and started begging to get back together with him, he said that he cant move on, I said no because I dont want a relationship right now and he walked away upset and almost started crying, instead, I started crying. =( Btw, we were going to kiss today for no real reason but didnt because we kinda fought instead.
He sent me a message on facebook saying that he wants to kiss me tomorrow and everyday until he moves on and I said no because I dont want him to feel "the spark" if we kiss repeadidly and not ever get over me. I want to kiss him once but only once, should I?
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No, you shouldn't kiss him. You're giving him hope. That's cruel.
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For his benefit and your benefit, do not kiss him at all. I say this knowing you'll give me a poor rating -- that is how much I stand by this advice and how little I give a fuck.
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You should just kiss him until he moves on. You don't need to date him, just do it for him so he'll leave you alone once and for all!
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Hmm it's not one of the best ideas if you wanna move on.But still.It's true that you wanna do whats good for you.But why not try something that you like.If it feels right for you.!
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It's NOT a good idea. If you are trying to move on then move on. Kissing him would give him the idea that there is a chance that you want to get back together. And you have clearly stated here that you don't want to get back together. You can tell him that you can still be friends (if you want to) but that's all you want to be. Good luck!
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If you know you're not ready for a relationship right now then you should probably hold off on the kiss before you do it and confuse your mind.
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