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My friend is ditching me and her other friend for her BF and new friends!!


Question Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 6:42 am

Please help me! I just don't know what to do! My friend has a date for the prom and then he asked her out and she said yes! Me and my friend Madelyn don't have dates for prom or boyfriend.
Ever since, she's been ditching me and her other friend for her boyfriend and other couples.

It's hard to talk to her! Let's say me and Madelyn, her used to be only two friend haven't hung out with her in forever. Whenever I try to talk to Jasmine on Facebook she responds a lot slower than usual and whenever I ask what she's gonna do today, she says she's going to hang out with her boyfriend or her new friends, who are also together. During lunch at school she eat with them and me and Madelyn are left alone. Jasmine is even starting to hang out with people she said that she hated! I can't talk to her, it's awkward and I don't know what to do about her. Me and Madelyn feel completely left out of her life nowadays and she seems more happy with her new friends and boyfriend than with her old two friends.

I can't take it any more. Her behaviour is hurting our friendship in my view. Please tell me what to do! :(


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Gabriela015 answered Saturday April 7 2012, 3:53 pm:
I think that if her friendship was really true she would have integrated you in her new group of friends. That means that when she was "your friend" she was just using you or something. Try to focus on something else and get a new friends do not wait for her to change her mind, move on with your life even though it hurts cause believe me i know how it feels but try to get new true friends. Good luck with that:)!

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JustJessOx answered Saturday April 7 2012, 11:18 am:
Hey there,
Okay well if she is ditching you and your other friend for her boyfriend and new friends then she isn't really a true friend is she?Think about it.
If she actually cared about you and your other friend she would make time to hang out with you and make the effort with you.
Move on from this girl. it's not worth the hurt or the hassle.
Girls who ditch their friends for their boyfriends almost always end up regretting it months down the line when they are single and friendless.
It's the whole boyfriends may come and go but friends are forever thing.
You and Madelyn should confront her about her behaviour. Let her know how you feel how she's treating you. How it's unacceptable.
sometimes.
It's her loss at the end of the day.
She is not acting like a true friend.
good luck and I hope this helps.
Much <3
Jess 18/f

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