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how can i get him to believe i regret it?
13/f
ok so my dad hacked my Fb account & saw a message of me asking a boy for some weed. but i don't use it i was just asking for another friend.
but he doesnt believe me & i dont really care but i regret asking that boy for it cause i wasnt gonna buy some i was just curious & my friend also wanted me to found out if he still sells it.
but IM CLEAN. so monday im supposely getting a urine test thingy. idk. so what should i do to convince my dad i wasnt gonna do it, or buy it. i was just curious.
P.S he doesnt believe me cause i get in trouble A LOT at school (not paying attention, yelling at my teacher, cutting myself.) & he doesnt believe me but i stopped. & i never took the weed or anything. Ughh. ohh well what are the consquences for this?
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Well let's face it - it wasn't the smartest move asking for weed. and whether you were going to smoke it or not, the fact you were even TALKING about it at 13 years old is enough to automatically lose trust for you.
Just take the urine test and prove you aren't on drugs.
It's not gonna make him trust you again straight away, but it sure as hell will help!
Take the test, prove him wrong and start putting more effort into excelling in school, not causing trouble.
He's just doing what any dad would do. You'll understand this more and more as you get older.
Let me know how it all goes - good luck!
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You should of course take the urine test. If your clean it is no big deal. If you truly want to prove to dad your clean ask him to pay for a hair cutting test. In this test the lab takes a cutting of several of your hairs, about a 1/4", and from this they can tell if you have smoked in the last 90 days. I would think this would prove to dad that you are clean and have not used or smoked weed.
While your at it you should tell dad who you were inquiring for. By the way don't ever do it again. This time dad caught you. Next time it could be the police. Your story that you were looking to buy some for a friend could lead to a charge of distribution if the police really want to jam you up. So tell your friend to do her own dirty work. Let dad decide what he wants to do with the knowledge that your friend is smoking weed.
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There's no quick fix for this. Your very untrustworthy so of course your dads not going to believe you (not saying it was right of him to hack your account though). What you need to do is drop the bull shit you've been doing; getting mad at teachers, the self harming. All that crap is only going to bite you in the ass later; there's plenty of ppl that can talk to you about that from experience (I'm not one of them but I've met enough).
Consequences is that you have a family that should be supporting and encouraging you but you don't give them anything that's worth it. Talk to your dad and tell him that your sorry for what you did and it will never happen again, and that you will still get drug tested for him. It will help start building up that trust again, it's only one step though, it looks like there's plenty more to go and it's up to you to do it
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