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stepfather/step daughter
okay im 15 and i was was going to dedicate a song to my step dad showing thanking him for everything he has done for me more than my real dad.
you see my real dad has never been in my life, until now he has been trying to talk to me i dont wanna to talk to him but my mom said o should get to kno him but anyways i just wanna let my step dad he is the number one dad and he wont ever be replaced.
thx and my dad is into country :))
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Okay there is a song called you didnt have to be. I believe thats the name of it. go on you tube and find it it talks about the different guys their mother dated until the last guy who seen the boy sitting on the steps and invited him to go and one night he hears him propsing to his mom its adorable. its also a country song!!
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I think what you are thinking of doing for your step-dad is very sweet of you. He had a choice to be your step-dad and to raise you as his own. There are not to many men who would do that.
While I think what your doing is great I would like to offer another suggestion. As a dad myself I think if I was a step-dad I would really cherish is a letter from you telling me how much you appreciate me being there for you and thinking of me as your only real dad, like you said here, "He is your number one dad and no one can replace him."
The dedication of a song is nice. A letter is something he can keep and show his friends and your children later on. If it is affordable and you chose to write a letter to him I would suggest the two of you go out to dinner someplace nice just the two of you where you can dress up. Maybe a small gift of a Bracelet inscribed with a with that thought of; "You are r my number one dad and no one can replace you." Given to him with the letter.
Other than grandchildren this to me would be the greatest gift you could give me, the letter that is. The dinner and bracelet are window dressing if affordable.
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Well I respect that,but you should give your biological dad a chance,you know,we,young people have the gift of being more open-minded than adults,mmm...maybe if you two go out for dinner and talk for a while, who knows?,I don't know,there's nothing to lose,is there?
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