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my frd is very important for me but my boyfrd do not like my frd.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
This is unfortunate and just as unfortunate it appears to happen more often these days. For some reason significant others are not very tolerant of their other friends. Even adults are having these problems.
I would suggest you ask your bf just what it is about your friend he doesn't like. Then tell him how important your friend is to you and ask him to be more tolerant of her. Relationships like marriage are 50/50 prepositions. Each of you comes into a relationship with past histories which includes friends you have made prior to meeting each other
One or two of these friendships will last a lifetime. The others will pass when you all go your separate ways come time to leave for college. For any relationship to work, be it a long term relationship or a short term relationship you need to learn to deal with the others history. This is the essence of teenage dating. The chances of you and your current bf growing up and getting married is possible but unlikely.
Relationship building like everything else in life is a learned experience. This is the primary purpose of teenage dating to learn to deal with each other and to build relationships. You have stumbled into something that you may see again as you go out in to the adult world. Finding out what it is your boyfriend doesn't like about your friend and dealing with it in an appropriate manner is a good experience.
Just do not dump your friend for your boyfriend as that would be wrong. If need be make sure you make time in you social life for her as well as your bf.
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