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Im nervous about the "hug" : /
Ok so I have a Boyfriend at the moment and we arent very serious. We havent kissed yet after 4 months and he is my first Bf ever. We hug though but when we do it lasts for 3 seconds :/
Then there is another guy who has been talking to me on Msn 24/7. He and I are really good friends and we play truth alot. He has had alot of girlfriends and has kissed alot of girls and made out before too. During truth, he keeps asking me questions like "If i kissed you, would u A.kiss back B.Pull away C.slap me D.make out" and stuff... I used to like him before I had a boyfriend and he likes me a bit now. He is my best guy friend but we hardly talk in person. We try to change that but its not easy considering everytime I start talking to him to my boyfriend, my boyfriend calls him a douche. I dont know what to do. My boyfriend needs to know because I need him to be cool with it all.
Last night the other guy was asking me the same question over and over that if he kissed me what i would do. He says he would kiss me and i dont know if i would kiss him. I have a boyfriend after all. I told him we are just friends and I said that (since i have been on vacation for a week) when i get back i would like a welcome back hug. He said Ok then said we would "hug" I have a strange idea that if we hug he might try to kiss me. My Boyfriend is completely fine with me hugging other guys but definately not kissing them.
Pleasse help, eveerything will be appreciated.
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i agree. If he was a good guy friend. He would not kiss you. But i will be honest. I have an thought he might. You need to be very clear with him. You are JUST friends. Good friends. Not friends who kiss. You are with your boyfriend for a reason. your boyfriend might be calling him a douche because of a masculine part of guys. They don't like competition. and insults make them feel imperior to other men.
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I have been through the exact same thing! He wont kiss u if he is a true friend. I hope u stay with your boyfriend and if you need advice on how to get your boyfriend to become the kissing type just ask me :) And its good that your boyfriend is ok with you hugging other guys because not many are. I think it would be a good thing for you and your best guy friend to talk in reality too because if you are really good friends right now then think of how much better it would be if you both talked in person. Hope this helped :)
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