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Will I ever find someone?
Hey,
16/f
Okay so I've had 1 previous relationship before that lasted 5 mnths however he ended it and then began to play around. I know at this point i could get him back easily because he wants me back, but I don't want him back as he's a player.
Trouble is that was two yrs back now and I'm wondering if I will ever find that special someone? Guys have been know to call me 'fit' round college and there are many nice ones there but i am shy. what shuld i do? Any advice welcome
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I'm shy too! I have had problems with guys too and I'm now happy single- they're more trouble than they're worth ;) don't go out with this guy again- he dumped you now don't give him a second chance even if you want to- he'll just think that he could wrap you around his little finger... don't give him the time of day, it could only end badly... You're only young and I'm sure you'll find that special someone, just don't go out with anyone who shows an interest- you've got to like them back... hope this helps :)
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You're young and you have plenty of time!
Trust me don't rush it and you will find someone. When I was 16 I was in such a need of a boyfriend because my friends all had a boyfriend. So even if a guy looked my way or flirted with me I was so thrilled. I even got a boyfriend senior year and I was so happy that I did. Little did I know it didn't mean anything. I really had no feelings and no communication with this kid. It was more of the fact that I was holding the title of 'girlfriend' that made me feel special. I wasn't happy though. I thought is this what a relationship should be like? It wasn't what a relationship is really like.
For years and years I was looking for one guy to be with one guy to make me happy. And when I stopped looking my prince showed up. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, he is everything that I have been looking for and need. He showed up when I least expected it and that's what was so great.
You're young enjoy life you have plenty of time to find someone else and there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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One day your special some one will come. At this age there is no love to be forced. If you wanted you could try some college guys if you feel comfortable but just wait and I promiss he'll come. I'm happy to know that you know you don't have to get back together with the guy if you don't want to. You only live once o there's nothing to be scared of. Get out there girl and go have fun because being single is still pretty awesome ;) Good luck hun!
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