Im 17 and I recently found out I was pregnanedt I want to tell my family but im scared. My boyfriend already knows and he told me not to worry he'll take care of both of us he really is a a great guy but I was wondering how do I just tell my parents because im not confortable with talkin to them about certain things like sec and subjects related to it I guess thats how I got into this in the first place I just want the best answers to tell my family that im pregnant. Please and thanks for the help.
solidadvice4teens answered Sunday January 15 2012, 12:08 am: There's no right or wrong way to do this. It's unfortunate they never educated you about sex or made you feel that you couldn't ask.
If you can't handle face-to-face because you expect a volatile reaction you could always write a letter for the more understanding of parents and ask them to help you.
Do you have an aunt, uncle, grandparent close to your family that has advocated for you before? You could ask them to be with you when you tell them. You could also set up a meeting with both sets of parents and do it that way. No way is easy and they may be livid but will come around and support you. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
eskimo answered Friday January 13 2012, 11:45 am: It's going to be really hard. Maybe pick the parent you are closest with and sit down and talk to them about it. Be honest. Just say you really don't know how to tell them this, but that you are pregnant. They might go off over it for a while. Just let them vent. They are probably going to be upset, but more than likely that will wear off and they will start to get excited about having a grandchild. Good luck, girl! I wish you the best :) [ eskimo's advice column | Ask eskimo A Question ]
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