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How do I get my sister to believe me and break up with the bastard?
Hi so my name is Bailey I'm 13 and a female. So yesterday my boyfriend who is 15 we made out after school and dry humped eachother and were being all sexy with eachother and we almost went back to his placse to have sex and my little sister saw us making out and dry humping. (she's 11) So she has a boyfriend too but he's 12 and the other day her boyfriend came up to me and said " I want to fuck u im just dating ur little sister for you. Kiss me and bite. Fuck me and it'll be a delight'" So i got all freaked out and was about to go tell my little siste r when he grabbed my boob and squeeezed it (im a size C) and told me not to tell and he was joking. I told my sis but she didn't believe me. (I MEAN WHAT THE FUCK THIS KID IS A 12 YEAR OLD BASTARD) I slapped him when he came over to my house for my sister ( he claimed) the next day. After he started makking out with me and I couldn't help it. Then 1 hour later my boyfrind came and the 12 year oold told him to 'back off and that i was his' They got into a fight a 12 year old and 15 year old while my little sis and I watched and hoped my Mom wouldn't be home anytime soon. She was still mad t me though for thinking I was making stuff up about her and her boyfriend. How do I get my sister to believe me and break up with the bastard? Also how do I get that bastard to stop squeezin my boobs and trying to fuck me? HELLLLPPP i love my boyfriend and dont want hm to be mad cause i told him this story and he is trying to protect me. Also i forgot to add that tody my sis's bf told me to meet him at his house tomorrow at 10 for some "fun" (he lives 3 houses away) ANY ADVICE??? Thanks
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All I have to say is, do you not realize what is wrong with this post? Several things, actually.
Number 1, you are 13, and therefore wayyy too young to be having sex. You might think it's stupid that I am lecturing you, but you need to realize that this is sick and wrong.
Your post makes you seem willing and considering for your sister's boyfriend. I'm wondering why you'd even let him do that kind of stuff to you. You have every power in you to shove him or push him away. You are 13. Stand up for yourself... 12 year olds are still children.
Your boyfriend is immature. He shouldn't have fought a twelve year old... do you realize how dumb that was? Yes, the situation was very tense, but things could have worked out much better with words. You don't stand back and watch, YOU STOP IT. On his behalf, he should leave you. If you let someone touch you sexually besides him, whether they're 12 or 16, it is cheating. He should dump your ass. I'm very angry about this post and you need to get it through your head that this is all stupid. DO NOT go in that house, and DO NOT ever have contact with this 12 year old ever again. You need to man up and stand up for yourself. You are becoming a teenager, and therefore that means you need to grow up.
This is pure madness. I am so angry about this. I hope you realize that this is wrong.
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There are so many things wrong with this.
Lets break it down for you.
You are too young to be having sex, you and your sister both. You are suppose to be setting examples for your little sister, and your being a bad influence.
It could be that your sister has seen you guys do this stuff, and she told her boyfriend so he figures if you do it with your boyfriend, you'll do it with him; and you probably will.
You made out with YOUR SISTER'S BOYFRIEND! What kind of sister are you? You had no choice? BULL SHIT! You could have pushed him away and went and locked yourself in another bedroom or something.
Than at the end, you say...'he wants me to meet him at his house at 10 for some fun, any advice?'
Like you are considering it! You aren't being a good girlfriend, you cheated on your boyfriend, and don't say you didn't, becuase you did. You made out with your sisters boyfriend, and not once did you push him away. You just went along with it.
Your boyfriend should leave you. You are too young for him anyways, especially when you were messing around with a 12 year old.
Your sister isn't going to believe you, because I can promise you, she thinks your the reason why he's doing this, and that is partically true.
And you know, you don't seem to be coming off as someone who is mad about this, "he grabbed my boob (im a size C)--why is that information about how big your boobs are important? Are you bragging??
If I was your sister, I'd beat the hell out of you. You should be ashamed. Like I said, set a good example for her, don't lead her onto the messed up path you are on.
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Tell your parents.
This little boy has sexually assaulted you. This isn't a thing for you and your boyfriend and sister to figure out, this is something you need to tell your parents about, and make sure they get onside protecting their daughters from this violent and abusive little boy.
Obviously, do not go to house. Do not allow yourself to be alone in a room with him. He assaulted you. He behaved criminally. Make an adult in your life understand what happened and help to protect you.
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