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How to have sex
I5/f. I'm a virgin and my boyfriend wants me to have sex with him but i have no idea.
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As a teenager myself, I know what it's like with the pressure atm, as people younger and younger are trying to have sex as soon as they can.
I'll admit I lost it at a stupidly young age, 14, but I honestly don't regret it as I really did like the guy and he liked me too. It was his first time aswell, it was Valentines Day and yeah, it was special.
I also didn't really know what to do either and anyone on their first few times having sex wont know, so I think the "if you don't know how, you aren't ready" theory doesn't count.
To sum up, my advice is to make sure it's special and that you both do honestly like eachother. Do make sure there is contraception involved as you can get pregnant on your first time - if you thought you couldn't then you're deffinatly too young! :L
Just be sure YOU are ready, don't be afraid to say no - putting this question shows you are unsure.
If he doesn't want you if you do say no, you know why.
Good luck, x
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I'm going to make it 3 out of 3. Your to young to be having sex. Yes your physical appearance makes you appear ready for see. You are capable of getting pregnant if you have sex. What is not truly ready is your sexual organs or your maturity.
Your boyfriend wants ex because as a boy going through puberty two things are at play with him. First and foremost is the need to relieve the sexual tension brought on by puberty. Second because of this need a teenage boy very and most often confuses lust and love. In fact to him they are synonymous.
Physically if he can get an erection and ejaculate he can have sex and get a female pregnant. Though he to is not mature enough for sex. For the female she can have sex at your age but it will be more pain full as she is till maturing physically.
At 15 neither of you have the mental maturity to fully understand the reality of adult sex. That is evident in your question. So tell him you not ready for sexual intercourse. If he says no sex no me let him go. He was just using you and lot really a boyfriend.
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If you don't know the basics of sex, Then I am going to assume that you are not ready. Sure, This may not be what you want to hear but it's the truth.
I would recommend you start reading about sexual education and birth control.......
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i don't judge anyone, it's not my place but i really hope the bit wair you say your a 5 year old is rong. to be honest i don't think you should be haveing sex just because your boyfrend wants you to and definatly not if you don't know the macanics of it.
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