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I have small boobs and i hate it! Do you think maybe they're still growing?
I am 17/F
I am a senior in high school
I am 5'8
I weigh 110 lbs.
yes, I am underweight
so i am tall, and skinny
and i have small boobs. and i hate it.
i wish they were bigger. I've asked a simmilar question and was told to be happy with my body and blah blah blah not to worry what other people think, but this isnt about other people this is more for myself. i cant afford a boob job, nor would i probably ever do that, but im not sure. do you think maybe they're still growing? i only wear an A and when i push on them (usually anytime) its kind of sore. and sometimes feels like a little harder. not like squishy normal boobs that you can just grab. (the only way i can explain it) so what should i do?
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You say your previous question concentrated on not worrying about what other people think about you and you're right, you have the problem and you must deal with it.
You have SO much going for you, young, good height, light build with breasts to match. Anything much bigger would possibly be out of proportion and could look extreme. I think, at 17, you could well grow a bit more, even into your early 20s. Some people are just meant to be of light build - my friend's daughter is 26 and still wears 13-year-old children's clothes.
Wearing a bra with a 'good' cup size is a rite of passage that we all expect to go thrpugh with flying colours, but when you think about it, what are the advantages of wearing a bra? They certainly aren't natural parts of our bodies, they're man-made prisons according to some feminists, to keep women a certain 'desired' shape. You and millions of others are different. You can wear T-shirts without that constricting elastic around your chest. Being slim, (nicer than skinny) the bra won't dig into the rolls of fat flesh on your back either. (Yes, I'm speaking from experience!)
Overall, I'd say make the most of wehat you've got. OK, so you've got small breasts, but I bet you've got lovely eyes or a beautiful smile, a knock-out sense of humour or you're very quick-witted.
Somebody once said, if there's a situation that, after changing everything possible, it still doesn't improve, the only thing you can change is the way you look at it.
Hope this helps, let me know how you get on? Good luck x.
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Puberty can last into your early 20's. So yes it is possible your breasts will grow again. The fact that you are underweight may be a contributing factor in the size of your breasts. The description of how your breasts feels and the fact the you say they do not feel normal says you should see a GYN for a breast evaluation.
If there is a medical problem that can be resolved then that should solve your problem. If there is a medical problem at all it needs to be determined and acted upon. Breast enhancement surgery is always an option that could be available to you. One you should make in consultation with your family doctor and GYN.
Being a small breasted woman who is skinny and has a small skeletal frame is nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. Large breasts are heavy and can cause a great deal of skeletal problems for you. This is why I suggest consulting your doctors before undergoing enhancement surgery. You don't want to exchange one minor non problem for a major real problem.
I know a lot of men who prefer small breasted women. There is a saying among men that anything over a handful is a waste. Sure we may stare at big breasted women, but who wants to listen to your wife or girl friend complain about them all the time. A small breasted women who dresses appropriately can be more sexy than a big breasted woman who can look rather trashy at times. So think about what you have vs what other girls have and what they say about them.
My nieces are both big breasted. Both want and will have reduction surgery because of the weight of their breast causing them back problems.
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I had the same problem in high school and I think I was about your age. I don't know if it was because I was a late bloomer or I gained weight but my boobs grew. Everyone is different so I don't know what's going to happen with you but it is possibly that they could grow. A lot of people told me I should be happy with myself when I wanted bigger boobs. I didn't believe them but now I look back and see I should've been happy with what I had. It's okay now but I guess its like that saying 'the grass is greener on the other side'.
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