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we dont live together
okay well me and my boyfriend live seperatly and we are currently expected our first child. He stays with his dad and I stay with my mom. Due to my job and my schooling I want to continue to stay here after the baby is born until we are able to afford something together. his house is to far of a drive for me to live there and he is not allowed to stay here because of my mothers beliefs. When the baby is born he of course wants to be there to help take care of it but I was wanting to bring it home with me. his dad has dogs and such and I wouldn't feel comfortable bringing a newborn baby in there until they cleaned it really well. He wants to be able to stay with me when the baby is just born to help me and I understand but i won't stay there right out of the hospital. what should i do? should I talk to my mother and see if she will let him stay a night or to or how should I explain it to him that I don't want to stay there with the baby just yet? he'd be heartbroken. I'm kind of in a rut.
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I'd like to know how old you are also. I would also like to know what mom's beliefs are causing a problem. I can make a fairly good guess at what they may be. If I'm correct her problem may be a little like closing the barn door after the cow has run off.
As the father of the child, with some regard for your ages, he does have certain rights for the care and well being of his child. The two of you need to set down together with both your parents and work out an equitable solution for all concerned.
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A. How old are both of you? This will help justify my answer to you :)
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