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Signs a guy isnt interested anymore


Question Posted Thursday January 5 2012, 5:12 pm

I've been talking to this guy but lately he's put me on the burner saying he doesn't want to cheat on his girl. But there are times where he acts interested all over again, and there are times where he won't text or barely flirt with me. Is he just lying to himself or is he really over it?

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AdviceMistress answered Friday January 6 2012, 9:24 am:
If he's with another girl that's a bad sign right there! Get away from him right now. When a guy is seeing two girls it means he's not going to be serious about either one. He's being selfish and you don't deserve to be treated like that. Ignore him, walk away from him, and lose all his contacts. He's playing with you because he know he can and you're letting him. Stop the cycle and end it by walking away!

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Xui answered Friday January 6 2012, 12:40 am:
It's a mix of both


The guy told you that he doesn't want to cheat on his girlfriend and that is a good thing, It shows that he is committed to his relationship and isn't willing to let someone come between that. Maybe he does like you but he basically told you that he has a girlfriend. Of course he isn't going to really flirt with you, Did you honestly expect him too? One major thing that turns a guy off is attention seekers and drama queens that like to come between relationships. Find someone who is not taken and stop trying to making people miserable.

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lightoftruth923 answered Thursday January 5 2012, 7:27 pm:
So I think he's interested but doesn't want to cheat on his girlfriend. You wouldn't want a guy who'd cheat on his girlfriend anyways.
At this point, he's confused and giving you mixed signals so I wouldn't try to go anywhere with him unless their relationship is over.

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Never2bAlone answered Thursday January 5 2012, 6:58 pm:
Sounds like he is a good guy trying to do right by his girlfriend and respect his relationship as you should. If he is really interested in you he will end his other relationship before starting something new. If he cheats on his current girl with you he will definately cheat on you with someone else if you two ever get together. Would you really want to be with someone who could disregard the feelings of others so easily? I would advise you to find a single guy rather than going after someone who has already told you he doesn't want to cheat on his girlfriend.

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