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am I to young for my first kiss?
I'm 11,am I to young for my first kiss?I really like my bf but i feel i'll be making a bad choice if we kiss.By the way,i'm a girl!
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You're question kind of gives the answer. You're not ready if you feel like you're making a bad choice. The sooner you give your first kiss the sooner the next one comes, and the next, and the next... what i'm trying to say is don't do something you will regret. The longer you wait... the more special it will be. In High School many guys went after me and I had many guys who wanted to kiss me. I didn't kiss anyone until I found a really good Christian boy and got to know him for a while. I finally kissed him at sixteen and he is the guy I am now engaged to. See what I'm trying to say? Good Luck girl! And remember that true love will always find its way! :)
- Millie :)
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Hi, Sometimes when you ask a question like this you have actually answered your own question. Anytime you question, it does not matter how old you are, if something you want to do is the right thing to do. The question is your internal safeguard telling you that this something may be unsafe or something you are not ready for.
In this instance I think your mind is telling you; Hey wait a minute, we're not ready yet to kiss boys. Boys are still yucky. Okay, I'm being a little silly in my description but the point is the same. You may not be ready for that first kiss and this is why you are questioning if this is a bad choice. For right now I'm going to go along with your warning system and say this is a bad time to have a first kiss.
This warning system I'm talking about will always be with you. Listen to it as it will keep you safe. When you question if something is the right thing to do it is a signal that it is probably the wrong thing to do. You could be hurt or get in really serious trouble; so don't do it. Rethink what your doing and see if there is a better way to do or to get whatever it is.
Now as for dating. Your 11 way to young to be dating. No disrespect but you need to be a little girl for a while longer. Give yourself time to mature and grow into the role of young adult teenager. It is okay to have a boy friend but not a boyfriend. Someone to walk to school with or ride the bus with but no dating.
One other piece of advice. The best person to ask this type of question is your mom. This kissing and dating is not sex so there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Mom has gone through everything you are going through and will have good advice for you. If you want the boys prospective on life at your age talk to dad.
As parents we may be old but we do remember what life was like when we were your age. If you ask us we will talk to you about our lives when we were your age. But you have to ask.
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People of course are going to have different answers on this one.
My opinion?
Yes, I think you are too young and I also believe that 11 years old is too young to be dating and having a boyfriend.
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I was 11 a month ago...if you really want to yaaa sure y not...you only live once! What's the worst thing that could happen if yu kiss? You feel guity..ya sure but so what u did it. Just try not to grow up 2 fffasssst and have fun ;) with it make worth your thinking of i as a bad choice lol! Yay
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