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Girls, would you be worried? or guys am I just paranoid..
I started dating this guy for a month and a half, things were going great the first month..
recently i met his friend Jason, who suppousivly had been his friend for six yeas and just stated talking to him again. I only talked to him a few mins bc my boyfriend spent time with me, wanted to spend time with his friend afterwards. Im cool with that just.. I think his friend might be gay.. Im not sure but just by the way he sounds, dresses really nice like.. in a colorful way.. but anyway, He hung out with him that night, the next night on new years, and when I thought I was maybe going to see him today, he said he'll ask his dad. that was at three, its now seven. I dont think Its going to happen.. so spending time with his friend is cool, but hes not texting me much when hes with him at all. And his friend seems gay.. But i might be wrong. They were talking about his friends ex but. maybe hes bi? maybe hes straight. idk, just spending a lot of time with him. and hasent texted me.. Girls what would you think if it was your guy.. or guys am I just being paranoid? Another weird thing is my bf has talked about this kid alot. said his name in a funny way. not if its important, kinda weird though :/
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Uh, based on the limited information that you have and that you have given, this is pretty stupid.
He hasn't spoken to this dude in six years, and now they've reconnected and they're spending some time catching up. The other guy's sexual orientation -- which is a total guess that you have no evidence of -- shouldn't be cause for concern; one of my closest friends is gay and I see him very frequently. That doesn't mean every time I go over to his place I'm blowing him.
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Well I wouldn't be worried about that whole being gay thing. Although who really knows?
My advice would just be to talk to him. Don't go off accusing him of being gay or bi or anything. Just try to get around the subject of trying to spend more time together. And don't sound like you're nagging him or trying to take him from his friends. I know you mean well but you don't want him to take it the wrong way. So just talk to him and see how it goes.
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Do you suspect your boyfriend may be cheating?.....Have you sat down and talked to your boyfriend about how you feel that you two aren't spending much time together? Sometimes the way to get dirt on someone without awkwardly coming out is just asking questions and see how they respond. Of course you can't expect your other half to constantly spend 24.7 with you.
I would maybe start to wonder but I certainly wouldn't jump to assumptions that maybe he was possibly testing his sexuality without questioning him first. Whatever you do, Don't assume that he is cheating/gay/bisexual or whatever as you wouldn't want to upset him. Just casually talk about how you feel and watch how he responds. If he is showing obvious signs of not being interested in the topic etc. Then you may have your answer.
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