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Hate myself and others...
Every were i go i always get treated like trash, like a dog. at work everyone steps on me and talks crap on me, at home i get treated like a nobody and i cant do anything about it. I still treat the ones with respect but at the same time still standing up for myself and still they treat me like i dont matter. I go to school and teachers dont want to help me because i look like a gangster or troublemaker. (i also droped out of school and went to go to an adult highschool cause of it) at home everyone treats me like a black sheep. my parents wont even help me because i should just defend myself and be a man. i get no attention from them and they act as if i dont exist but when i want to go do somthing like hang out with freinds or go to concerts they say no even though i have the right cause i fend for myself. everyone acts as if they can do this and more. they feel they own me but they don't. so why do i feel this way. P.S.
Im sorry that this message was so long im stressed out and want awnsers. Also im 17 if that helps anything
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you are in a very difficult situation and I know at some point in all our lives we feel like we're not being treated with the respect we deserve ( and we're usually right!). Your situation seems to be particularly bad and I know it must seem horrible for you but there is always hope. I'm happy to hear that you are still going to an adult highschool because having that education is your ticket to getting your own life and your own place and everything you'll need in your future life. I know right now that might not seem like much, all you can do for now is keep your head up. If there are people who are treating you badly or making you feel bad about yourself don't talk to them, find people who like you for who you are. Parents are difficult, we always feel like they are holding us back! They probably don't want you off at concerts or hanging around late at night because they are worried about you.The best thing to do is to compromise, then as they learn they can trust you they will be easier on you. If you want to go out, tell them where you are going and then agree a time you have to be back by etc. People see you as you see yourself,if you are confident and like how you dress etc then people will see that in you and respect you for it.
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Okay first i would like to say that i am very sorry that this had to happen to you its horrible and no ne should have to go through this.Im also going to say that there is no easy solution to this problem.But,love has to start with yourself and you should never hate yourself no matter what you have to have confidence for yourself.You can't hate yourself and not have respect for yourself and expect everyone else to.It starts with you so when you get up in the morning look yourself in the mirror and say "im beautiul and just as important as everyone else"it might seem dumb but if you recite everyday you'll start to believe it.Secondly,you'll be 18 very soon(happy future birthday:-))So you'll be able to do whatever you what ( i hope you make the right decisions) so if somebody not treating you right kick them to the curb because the only people that should be around you are the ones that are in your best intrest...Be who you are and say what you feel because those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind-Dr.Seuss:-)
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